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At first, I thought my wife was clawing up the inside of our accords door handles… I detailed and waxed the car myself a few days ago, and discovered that the back part of our 2003 accords door handles… ALL FOUR… had fine scratches on them… I then thought "We never use the back seats (no kids) my wife rarely wears her wedding ring (encouraging herself to lose wieght) and I never drive the thing" I can only assume that this area of the car gets wierd airflow, and air is circulating inside and fine debris stays in there scratching it up. As hard as this is to beleive, take my corvette for example, 1992 (for sale by the way, if interested). The tail lights get dirty right after you wash them if you drive more than 100 yards… in the corvette group, people complain of this all the time, it is because air somehow comes back up the back of the vette and dirt and road grime can settle in the light wells. I was wondering if anyone knew some place that sold an item similar to this: http://www.madvet.com/shop?frame=1.722 (these are for corvettes) but for the honda accord… thanks in advance! and email me if interested in my corvette! So red (remove the NOSPAM)
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I noticed the same thing too but with an oil or tar like substance. It’s not anything to complain about but I noticed it …
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> At first, I thought my wife was clawing up the inside of our accords > door handles… > I detailed and waxed the car myself a few days ago, and discovered > that the back part of our 2003 accords door handles… ALL FOUR… had > fine scratches on them… > I then thought "We never use the back seats (no kids) my wife rarely > wears her wedding ring (encouraging herself to lose wieght) and I > never drive the thing" > I can only assume that this area of the car gets wierd airflow, and > air is circulating inside and fine debris stays in there scratching it > up. > As hard as this is to beleive, take my corvette for example, 1992 (for > sale by the way, if interested). The tail lights get dirty right after > you wash them if you drive more than 100 yards… in the corvette > group, people complain of this all the time, it is because air somehow > comes back up the back of the vette and dirt and road grime can settle > in the light wells. > I was wondering if anyone knew some place that sold an item similar to > this: > http://www.madvet.com/shop?frame=1.722 (these are for corvettes) > but for the honda accord… > thanks in advance! and email me if interested in my corvette! So red > (remove the NOSPAM)
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When we bought my engagement ring we got a size 7 and knew it would have to be resized. We took the ring to wal-mart today and told them we wanted to resize it. The lady figured out my size (6- on the system they use) and she also started looking to see if they had a 6 in the same ring. She handed the exact same ring to me and told me it was a 6. We exchanged the rings and I look at the tag after I get out of the store and it is a size 7. The exact same size I just exchanged because it was too big. How hard is it to tell the difference between a 6 and 7? It states it right on the tag. I think when I exchange the ring again I’m going to a different Wal-Mart.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When we bought my engagement ring we got a size 7 and knew it would have to > be resized. > We took the ring to wal-mart today and told them we wanted to resize it. > The lady figured out my size (6- on the system they use) and she also > started looking to see if they had a 6 in the same ring. She handed the > exact same ring to me and told me it was a 6. We exchanged the rings and I > look at the tag after I get out of the store and it is a size 7. The exact > same size I just exchanged because it was too big. > How hard is it to tell the difference between a 6 and 7? It states it right > on the tag. I think when I exchange the ring again I’m going to a different > Wal-Mart.]
Well, you could have simply tried it on before you left the store. If the tag was so obvious why didn’t YOU notice it?
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I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing feels different. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When we bought my engagement ring we got a size 7 and knew it would have >to > be resized. > We took the ring to wal-mart today and told them we wanted to resize it. > The lady figured out my size (6- on the system they use) and she also > started looking to see if they had a 6 in the same ring. She handed the > exact same ring to me and told me it was a 6. We exchanged the rings and >I > look at the tag after I get out of the store and it is a size 7. The >exact > same size I just exchanged because it was too big. > How hard is it to tell the difference between a 6 and 7? It states it >right > on the tag. I think when I exchange the ring again I’m going to a >different > Wal-Mart.] >Well, you could have simply tried it on before you left the store. If the >tag was so obvious why didn’t YOU notice it?
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Andrea wrote, << I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing feels different. >> Yes, it does. The person behind the counter should have had you try on a ring-sizer, and then double-checked the merchandise. Sharon in San Jose
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> Andrea wrote, << I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the > sizing feels > different. >>
I get the feeling you’re expecting the kind of good knowledgeable customer service you would get at an actual jewelry store … while shopping at Wally World. Inexperienced, low wage sales clerk at Walmart does not equal fine jewler. As with everything …. you pay for what you get. Edward
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> How hard is it to tell the difference between a 6 and 7? It states it right > on the tag. I think when I exchange the ring again I’m going to a different > Wal-Mart.
WAL-MART??? I’ve got serious images of Natalie Portman from "Where the Heart Is" running around in my head. Now I’m not one to encourage spending lots of money on jewelery, but the ring has to last (in theory), and if you want value for money, go to an estate sale. Fiona
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Andrea Morgan wrote… > I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing feels > different.
So – why not just wear the ring with the tag on? That should solve everything! Seriously, why bash the store when you didn’t even look at the tag hanging from the ring – wasn’t that the problem in the first place? <sheesh> — Joe Pucillo Baltimore, Maryland USA To reply by email, please remove the .xx from the address.
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> Andrea Morgan wrote… > I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing feels > different. > So – why not just wear the ring with the tag on? That should solve > everything!
I was going to suggest wrapping a band-aid around the band. That always worked when *I* was in high school! Ann – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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Re-sizers cost all of $8 (although my jeweler just sighed and put it on free, as he hates them but it *was* the right solution for us). And that leaves some room on the hand for the inevitable swelling/weight gain that comes with pregnancy. Getting wedding rings cut off is such a PITA. Jen
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Andrea Morgan wrote… > > I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing feels > > different. > So – why not just wear the ring with the tag on? That should solve > everything! > I was going to suggest wrapping a band-aid around the band. That always > worked when *I* was in high school! > Ann
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What exactly is a resizer? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Re-sizers cost all of $8 (although my jeweler just sighed and put it on >free, as he hates them but it *was* the right solution for us). >And that leaves some room on the hand for the inevitable swelling/weight >gain that comes with pregnancy. Getting wedding rings cut off is such a >PITA. >Jen > > Andrea Morgan wrote… > > > I tried it on before I left the store. With the tag on the sizing >feels > > > different. > > So – why not just wear the ring with the tag on? That should solve > > everything! > I was going to suggest wrapping a band-aid around the band. That always > worked when *I* was in high school! > Ann
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Andrea asked, << What exactly is a resizer? >> It’s a little metal insert that goes into the ring to "resize" it by making it smaller. Argh. I guess I thought the term was self-explanatory. Sharon in San Jose
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Does anyone have a good link for marquis engagement ring wraps or jackets?
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try http://showcase.helzberg.com/cgi-bin/ncommerce3/CategoryDisplay?cgmen… cgrfnbr=473889&pcgnbr=473888 or other jeweler sites like www.kayjewelers.com
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Diane, Sending good thoughts for everyone & lots of GramPaHugs, Alex, > I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over > Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom.
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Diane, I dont know what to say except, I hope you are taking care of yourself during this time. Its difficult and I know I felt selfish when under similar circumstances I had to deal with the issue. I finally explained it to my brothers and would just leave and go spend time by myself. A park, a lake, a cathedral if there is a nice one around. Anywhere away from everyone else. Its hard but when you are able to find time to not think about the problems it helps you when you do have to think about them. johnie
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Diane: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Don’t forget to take care of your self. When my grandparents passed away my son was gone to alnltic georgia with school. He was supposed to go to washington DC but we had a little war still going on. My grand mother had sliped into a coma and was not expected to live. MY son had planed on this trip for a long time. A day or two after he left my grandfather was put in the hospital. My grandmother died and 2 days later my grandfather died on the same day she was to be berried. WE had a double furnel and my son missed the whole thing. HE had a great time and the break did him good. He got to see the Braves play baseball. God Bless all of your family. Judy A. V.
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Many prayers and hugs and good thoughts on thier way!!! God bless!!! Donna G
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Since we are having a memorial service and a cremation with no viewing, we have decided to have Nicholas spend as much time with his Papa Joe before he goes and hold the service when he gets back, if that’s how things work out. I’m encouraging him to "talk from his heart" so that nothing will be left unsaid if he goes while Nick is gone. DianeW
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Diane: > My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Don’t forget to > take care of your self. When my grandparents passed away my son was gone > to alnltic georgia with school. He was supposed to go to washington DC > but we had a little war still going on. My grand mother had sliped into > a coma and was not expected to live. MY son had planed on this trip for > a long time. A day or two after he left my grandfather was put in the > hospital. My grandmother died and 2 days later my grandfather died on > the same day she was to be berried. WE had a double furnel and my son > missed the whole thing. HE had a great time and the break did him good. > He got to see the Braves play baseball. God Bless all of your family. > Judy A. V.
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{{{{{DianeW}}}}} I bet Joe knows more than you think he does. People often seem to have an uncanny 6th sense when their time has come. My thoughts are with you all. Sarah L "Friends are those people who know the words to the song in your heart and sing them back to you when you have forgotten the words." (unattributed)
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Thanks for the update Diane. Don’t forget to try to take care of yourself. I will be praying for the whole family. How long will Nick be gone? With luck he will be back before Joe leaves this life. Duckie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over > Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom. …..
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Hi Diane, Please take whatever steps to shake off the stress anyway you can. Your condition is very complicated. We all have to go through situations like yours and we find later how much it costs us. You and yours are in my prayers and thanks for the update. Rest well. Harv – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over > Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom. I slept today till 2:00 > with the exception of getting up for breakfast and taking my meds and a few > phone calls around 9am. Then we went to the nursing home and I just got > home! I’m gonna lay low tomorrow maybe taking Nick to the Mall around 3 for > some shorts and stuff for Lacrosse camp. He leaves Thurs for his 10 day camp > at Annapolis. Oh, and a portable fan too! Do you know if they make > sleeping bag sheets? He gets prickly heat from sleeping in his sleeping bag > in only his boxer shorts. I’m so worried that Joe will die while he’s away. > Nick said he wanted to come home if he did but my Mom said since Joe will be > cremated that we can wait and have to memorial service when everyone is back > in town. I don’t know how these things work. I’ve never had to arrange a > funeral or cremation before. Nick and Papa Joe as he’s called are very > close and I know this is very hard on him. Yet Nick has been looking > forward to Annapolis since he applied last March. Every day it’s Navy, Navy > Navy……Not everyone made it…..he’s one of 4 on his team that made it. > A few didn’t. So I don’t want him to miss this opportunity. I’m making > sure he visits every day and am trying to get him to talk from his heart > before he leaves on Thurs. > Joe’s still about the same. Up and down. They’ve added more morphine to his > nebulizer to ease the sensation of not being able to breath. His appetite is > still good but he’s anemic and they are giving him a nutritional supplement > in liquid form every day. He’s sleeping a lot more and the nurses say it’s > from the morphine but the Dr said it’s not. He’s still in major denial and > thinks he can come home if he has an electric wheelchair and will be able to > go back to work in his home office. We tell him everyday he’s not strong > enough to come home cause Mom can’t take care of him by herself and he can’t > even transfer alone or stand up. No one else in my family will tell him > the truth about how bad he is. He still thinks he can get better if he > keeps getting rehab. Of course when he takes the morphine he feels better > and thinks he’s getting better. Today I told him that just because he feels > better doesn’t mean his lungs are better because the COPD and cancer have > damaged his lungs very bad and that damage is not reversible. I hope it > sinks in. The stupid pulminologist told him they might be able to seal his > lungs which is a joke cause they have to do general anesthesia for that and > the doctors have been telling us for 5 years that he can’t have that. Also, > it’s supposed to be VERY painful for 4-5 days afterwards and they wouldn’t > be able to give him a high enough dose of morphine for that without > suppressing his respiration levels. So it’s not good for him. And the > chance that it would actually work is slim. I told him that the degree of > damage right now to his lungs is such that he might want to start > considering that he’s going to have some fluid in there and that it will > always be there. I’m also trying to prepare him for the fact that the > oncologist might not give him chemo on Thursday. After his first Chemo, his > numbers went up and the tumor is still larger in his lung. The doctor told > me that’s not a good sign that the chemo would even do anything, even after > only one treatment. His number is up around 900. I’m not sure exactly what > that means but 10 in normal. I think it would be better to deal with it > straight on but I have to go along with my siblings. My sister is coming > this week and maybe she will have more luck. Even my Mom agrees with my > brothers. How can he be spiritually prepared if no one is telling him the > truth? I know, in his heart of hearts, he knows because he says things > reflectively like, "I’ve had a good life. I have no regrets." ( well, he > should regret smoking for 47 years as my 13 year old son Nick said to me ) > And he’s telling different kids to take things. Like my brother to take > whatever fishing gear he wants and Nick to take his workbench and tools. > Stuff like that. So it’s a yo-yo. I guess that’s normal. > Well …. I could go on all night but I’m tired. Thanks to all the well > wishes and prayers everyone has been sending! I can’t tell you how much it > means to me when I get home at night and find your encouragement and well > wishes in my mailbox! Anyway…I’m off to bed. > Cyberhugs…DianeW
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Di-This is the one of the hardest things you will ever have to do in your life time. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. Char "Remember, I’m pulling for ya’. We’re all in this together." Red Green
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(((Diane))) I can see how everything you have on your plate would wear on you after a while. I’m praying for comfort for Joe, whatever the end result is and healing for all your family. I think you should be able to get Nick a sleepsack at any large sporting goods/backpacking/travel store. If you had the time (and inclination…I don’t) you could make one out of a flat flannel sheet by just sewing the bottom and sides together. It sounds like a great adventure for your son and an opportunity not to be missed. Hugs and good wishes on all your current activities, Kelly C.;o)
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over > Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom. I slept today till 2:00 > with the exception of getting up for breakfast and taking my meds and a few > phone calls around 9am. Then we went to the nursing home and I just got > home! I’m gonna lay low tomorrow maybe taking Nick to the Mall around 3 for > some shorts and stuff for Lacrosse camp. He leaves Thurs for his 10 day camp > at Annapolis. Oh, and a portable fan too! Do you know if they make > sleeping bag sheets? He gets prickly heat from sleeping in his sleeping bag > in only his boxer shorts. I’m so worried that Joe will die while he’s away. > Nick said he wanted to come home if he did but my Mom said since Joe will be > cremated that we can wait and have to memorial service when everyone is back > in town. I don’t know how these things work. I’ve never had to arrange a > funeral or cremation before. Nick and Papa Joe as he’s called are very > close and I know this is very hard on him. Yet Nick has been looking > forward to Annapolis since he applied last March. Every day it’s Navy, Navy > Navy……Not everyone made it…..he’s one of 4 on his team that made it. > A few didn’t. So I don’t want him to miss this opportunity. I’m making > sure he visits every day and am trying to get him to talk from his heart > before he leaves on Thurs. > Joe’s still about the same. Up and down. They’ve added more morphine to his > nebulizer to ease the sensation of not being able to breath. His appetite is > still good but he’s anemic and they are giving him a nutritional supplement > in liquid form every day. He’s sleeping a lot more and the nurses say it’s > from the morphine but the Dr said it’s not. He’s still in major denial and > thinks he can come home if he has an electric wheelchair and will be able to > go back to work in his home office. We tell him everyday he’s not strong > enough to come home cause Mom can’t take care of him by herself and he can’t > even transfer alone or stand up. No one else in my family will tell him > the truth about how bad he is. He still thinks he can get better if he > keeps getting rehab. Of course when he takes the morphine he feels better > and thinks he’s getting better. Today I told him that just because he feels > better doesn’t mean his lungs are better because the COPD and cancer have > damaged his lungs very bad and that damage is not reversible. I hope it > sinks in. The stupid pulminologist told him they might be able to seal his > lungs which is a joke cause they have to do general anesthesia for that and > the doctors have been telling us for 5 years that he can’t have that. Also, > it’s supposed to be VERY painful for 4-5 days afterwards and they wouldn’t > be able to give him a high enough dose of morphine for that without > suppressing his respiration levels. So it’s not good for him. And the > chance that it would actually work is slim. I told him that the degree of > damage right now to his lungs is such that he might want to start > considering that he’s going to have some fluid in there and that it will > always be there. I’m also trying to prepare him for the fact that the > oncologist might not give him chemo on Thursday. After his first Chemo, his > numbers went up and the tumor is still larger in his lung. The doctor told > me that’s not a good sign that the chemo would even do anything, even after > only one treatment. His number is up around 900. I’m not sure exactly what > that means but 10 in normal. I think it would be better to deal with it > straight on but I have to go along with my siblings. My sister is coming > this week and maybe she will have more luck. Even my Mom agrees with my > brothers. How can he be spiritually prepared if no one is telling him the > truth? I know, in his heart of hearts, he knows because he says things > reflectively like, "I’ve had a good life. I have no regrets." ( well, he > should regret smoking for 47 years as my 13 year old son Nick said to me ) > And he’s telling different kids to take things. Like my brother to take > whatever fishing gear he wants and Nick to take his workbench and tools. > Stuff like that. So it’s a yo-yo. I guess that’s normal. > Well …. I could go on all night but I’m tired. Thanks to all the well > wishes and prayers everyone has been sending! I can’t tell you how much it > means to me when I get home at night and find your encouragement and well > wishes in my mailbox! Anyway…I’m off to bed. > Cyberhugs…DianeW
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Get some rest Diane. And definitely the memorial service can wait until Nick is back if it comes to that. We held off for 2 weeks for Gram since she was cremated. Hugs and prayers Kelly – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over > Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom. I slept today till 2:00 > with the exception of getting up for breakfast and taking my meds and a few > phone calls around 9am. Then we went to the nursing home and I just got > home! I’m gonna lay low tomorrow maybe taking Nick to the Mall around 3 for > some shorts and stuff for Lacrosse camp. He leaves Thurs for his 10 day camp > at Annapolis. Oh, and a portable fan too! Do you know if they make > sleeping bag sheets? He gets prickly heat from sleeping in his sleeping bag > in only his boxer shorts. I’m so worried that Joe will die while he’s away. > Nick said he wanted to come home if he did but my Mom said since Joe will be > cremated that we can wait and have to memorial service when everyone is back > in town. I don’t know how these things work. I’ve never had to arrange a > funeral or cremation before. Nick and Papa Joe as he’s called are very > close and I know this is very hard on him. Yet Nick has been looking > forward to Annapolis since he applied last March. Every day it’s Navy, Navy > Navy……Not everyone made it…..he’s one of 4 on his team that made it. > A few didn’t. So I don’t want him to miss this opportunity. I’m making > sure he visits every day and am trying to get him to talk from his heart > before he leaves on Thurs. > Joe’s still about the same. Up and down. They’ve added more morphine to his > nebulizer to ease the sensation of not being able to breath. His appetite is > still good but he’s anemic and they are giving him a nutritional supplement > in liquid form every day. He’s sleeping a lot more and the nurses say it’s > from the morphine but the Dr said it’s not. He’s still in major denial and > thinks he can come home if he has an electric wheelchair and will be able to > go back to work in his home office. We tell him everyday he’s not strong > enough to come home cause Mom can’t take care of him by herself and he can’t > even transfer alone or stand up. No one else in my family will tell him > the truth about how bad he is. He still thinks he can get better if he > keeps getting rehab. Of course when he takes the morphine he feels better > and thinks he’s getting better. Today I told him that just because he feels > better doesn’t mean his lungs are better because the COPD and cancer have > damaged his lungs very bad and that damage is not reversible. I hope it > sinks in. The stupid pulminologist told him they might be able to seal his > lungs which is a joke cause they have to do general anesthesia for that and > the doctors have been telling us for 5 years that he can’t have that. Also, > it’s supposed to be VERY painful for 4-5 days afterwards and they wouldn’t > be able to give him a high enough dose of morphine for that without > suppressing his respiration levels. So it’s not good for him. And the > chance that it would actually work is slim. I told him that the degree of > damage right now to his lungs is such that he might want to start > considering that he’s going to have some fluid in there and that it will > always be there. I’m also trying to prepare him for the fact that the > oncologist might not give him chemo on Thursday. After his first Chemo, his > numbers went up and the tumor is still larger in his lung. The doctor told > me that’s not a good sign that the chemo would even do anything, even after > only one treatment. His number is up around 900. I’m not sure exactly what > that means but 10 in normal. I think it would be better to deal with it > straight on but I have to go along with my siblings. My sister is coming > this week and maybe she will have more luck. Even my Mom agrees with my > brothers. How can he be spiritually prepared if no one is telling him the > truth? I know, in his heart of hearts, he knows because he says things > reflectively like, "I’ve had a good life. I have no regrets." ( well, he > should regret smoking for 47 years as my 13 year old son Nick said to me ) > And he’s telling different kids to take things. Like my brother to take > whatever fishing gear he wants and Nick to take his workbench and tools. > Stuff like that. So it’s a yo-yo. I guess that’s normal. > Well …. I could go on all night but I’m tired. Thanks to all the well > wishes and prayers everyone has been sending! I can’t tell you how much it > means to me when I get home at night and find your encouragement and well > wishes in my mailbox! Anyway…I’m off to bed. > Cyberhugs…DianeW
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{{{{{Diane, Joe & family}}}}} Steve and I are sending thoughts of peace and comfort to you and yours. Don’t forget to take care of yourself while you are taking care of everyone else. I’m sure Joe knows the seriousness of the situation enough to make his peace with the universe, even if he hasn’t heard the doctor’s prognosis in so many words. It may be that he understands that your sibs can’t discuss it right now, and hasn’t acknowledged anything plainly for their sake. Letting everyone know how he wants his things to be distributed could be his way of telling you that he knows without coming right out and saying so. My mom never expressed in words that she knew she was dying, but she found a silent way to let me know. My wedding ring had become too small for me, so I had started wearing it on a chain around my neck. One day after her nurse left, Mom took her wedding rings off her hand and put them on mine. Neither of us needed to say anything. Becky
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{{{Diane}}}. Thanks for the update. It looks like you have your hands full. Don’t forget to take care of you, too. Cindy R.
> I thought I’ve give an update on Joe
<snip> Well …. I could go on all night but I’m tired. Thanks to all the well – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> wishes and prayers everyone has been sending! I can’t tell you how much it > means to me when I get home at night and find your encouragement and well > wishes in my mailbox! Anyway…I’m off to bed. > Cyberhugs…DianeW
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I thought I’ve give an update on Joe. I’m so exhausted from looking over Joe at the nursing home and taking care of Mom. I slept today till 2:00 with the exception of getting up for breakfast and taking my meds and a few phone calls around 9am. Then we went to the nursing home and I just got home! I’m gonna lay low tomorrow maybe taking Nick to the Mall around 3 for some shorts and stuff for Lacrosse camp. He leaves Thurs for his 10 day camp at Annapolis. Oh, and a portable fan too! Do you know if they make sleeping bag sheets? He gets prickly heat from sleeping in his sleeping bag in only his boxer shorts. I’m so worried that Joe will die while he’s away. Nick said he wanted to come home if he did but my Mom said since Joe will be cremated that we can wait and have to memorial service when everyone is back in town. I don’t know how these things work. I’ve never had to arrange a funeral or cremation before. Nick and Papa Joe as he’s called are very close and I know this is very hard on him. Yet Nick has been looking forward to Annapolis since he applied last March. Every day it’s Navy, Navy Navy……Not everyone made it…..he’s one of 4 on his team that made it. A few didn’t. So I don’t want him to miss this opportunity. I’m making sure he visits every day and am trying to get him to talk from his heart before he leaves on Thurs. Joe’s still about the same. Up and down. They’ve added more morphine to his nebulizer to ease the sensation of not being able to breath. His appetite is still good but he’s anemic and they are giving him a nutritional supplement in liquid form every day. He’s sleeping a lot more and the nurses say it’s from the morphine but the Dr said it’s not. He’s still in major denial and thinks he can come home if he has an electric wheelchair and will be able to go back to work in his home office. We tell him everyday he’s not strong enough to come home cause Mom can’t take care of him by herself and he can’t even transfer alone or stand up. No one else in my family will tell him the truth about how bad he is. He still thinks he can get better if he keeps getting rehab. Of course when he takes the morphine he feels better and thinks he’s getting better. Today I told him that just because he feels better doesn’t mean his lungs are better because the COPD and cancer have damaged his lungs very bad and that damage is not reversible. I hope it sinks in. The stupid pulminologist told him they might be able to seal his lungs which is a joke cause they have to do general anesthesia for that and the doctors have been telling us for 5 years that he can’t have that. Also, it’s supposed to be VERY painful for 4-5 days afterwards and they wouldn’t be able to give him a high enough dose of morphine for that without suppressing his respiration levels. So it’s not good for him. And the chance that it would actually work is slim. I told him that the degree of damage right now to his lungs is such that he might want to start considering that he’s going to have some fluid in there and that it will always be there. I’m also trying to prepare him for the fact that the oncologist might not give him chemo on Thursday. After his first Chemo, his numbers went up and the tumor is still larger in his lung. The doctor told me that’s not a good sign that the chemo would even do anything, even after only one treatment. His number is up around 900. I’m not sure exactly what that means but 10 in normal. I think it would be better to deal with it straight on but I have to go along with my siblings. My sister is coming this week and maybe she will have more luck. Even my Mom agrees with my brothers. How can he be spiritually prepared if no one is telling him the truth? I know, in his heart of hearts, he knows because he says things reflectively like, "I’ve had a good life. I have no regrets." ( well, he should regret smoking for 47 years as my 13 year old son Nick said to me ) And he’s telling different kids to take things. Like my brother to take whatever fishing gear he wants and Nick to take his workbench and tools. Stuff like that. So it’s a yo-yo. I guess that’s normal. Well …. I could go on all night but I’m tired. Thanks to all the well wishes and prayers everyone has been sending! I can’t tell you how much it means to me when I get home at night and find your encouragement and well wishes in my mailbox! Anyway…I’m off to bed. Cyberhugs…DianeW
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> In all honesty, does it really matter what kind of photographer I go with? I > mean, everyone that I know that has been married for any substancial amount > of time has maybe 1 or 2 wedding pictures framed on their bedroom wall… > the other 100 pictures are in an album stuffed in the back of the linen > closet or up in the attic collecting dust. I know it will be a huge deal to > me to see the photos when we first get them back and we’ll all be oodling > over them and complaining about which ones we really hate and laughing and > having a good time over the ones that turned out well… but, in all > honesty, does it really matter in 20 years? In 20 years, will we really care > that one or two of the pics didn’t turn out exactly as we wanted?
I don’t know about 20 years, but I’ve been married over 10, and I still look at our wedding pictures, both the professional and the amateur. Too many folks who were there at our wedding have died in the meantime: how do I explain to my kid who my godmother’s husband is, and what place he had in my life, without a picture to anchor the image? Too, with our mobile society, we’ve moved cross-country twice since we married, and I don’t get the chance to see those dear people very often anymore. Hence, the desire for pictures. > We could take a picture of us in the backyard wearing jeans and t-shirts and > I would still love him just the same. I don’t need to wear a big fluffy > white dress and have my picture taken 1000 times to say "I love you."
True. The way it worked out, I have *one* picture of me and my FIL. It was taken when I first met him, and it’s a lousy picture, but I keep it anyway. Why? He died before we could get married. (He got the chance to see the wedding rings we bought, but didn’t last long enough to see us use them.) But I think he might have felt better if we’d been able to get a formal portrait, with everyone looking good. > Okay, I had to get that off my chest… sorry… that being said, I still > want nice photos, I’m just not totally obsessed with them. In the long run, > there are much more important things in life.
It’s not just the photos, either, but then I suspect you know that already. — aMAZon "It’s never too late to have a happy childhood."
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Actually, from the price lists and brochures I’ve seen… this person is the cheapest I’ve found. Of course, since I haven’t seen any other photogs yet, I don’t know if they just give raw photos or not. I’m in the Seattle area. — Kim < June 30th 2001 >
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I don’t know where you live, but that seems a bit high. I live near > Chicago. The bridal album(5-8X10’s, 24-5X7’s 76-3 1/2×5) is $800. I wanted > the less expensive album — about 10 less pictures and nothing embossed on > the front, but fianc
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You know I love seeing this! Hugs, Elle > Nicole > One week, five days, 4 hours, 6 minutes and 11 seconds. 425 cigarettes > not smoked, saving $75.82. Time I can spend with my little one that I > wouldn’t have if I were smoking: 1 day, 11 hours, 25 minutes.
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lol, diane!!! i’ll join you in seaworld! suze
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Trust me, doctor’s scales are *highly* innacurate. If the one I was weighed > on last week was right, then I belong in a zoo, or possibly Sea World. 
> But I’m NOT smoking!!! > Diane M. > According to the doctors scales…I have hit a 30 lb gain since 8/1/00. =( > Bren > Three months, three weeks, four days, 23 hours, 42 minutes and 9 seconds. > 1784 cigarettes not smoked, saving $254.06. Life saved: 6 days, 4 hours, 40 > minutes.
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dear bren, congrats on your three months! rosie > According to the doctors scales…I have hit a 30 lb gain since 8/1/00. =( > Bren > Three months, three weeks, four days, 23 hours, 42 minutes and 9 seconds. > 1784 cigarettes not smoked, saving $254.06. Life saved: 6 days, 4 hours, 40 > minutes.
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>I do understand the "major milestone" problem, though. Since my diagnosis >of Type II diabetes on October 4, I have lost a total of two, yes two, >pounds. When I told a colleague at work that (in addition to the really >good news about my blood glucose levels being under excellent control (yay >me!)) and that I now had "only 113 more pounds to lose", she said "I don’t >even weigh 113". *yikes* I feel the need for the body disposal unit to >take care of her and her less than 113 pounds. :->
Slap her for me, will ya? Nicole One week, five days, 4 hours, 6 minutes and 11 seconds. 425 cigarettes not smoked, saving $75.82. Time I can spend with my little one that I wouldn’t have if I were smoking: 1 day, 11 hours, 25 minutes. P.S. Not a very *active* group, but wonderful people… http://clubs.yahoo.com/clubs/diabetesinthefamily I signed up when I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes during pregnancy. ***** Anthony Raymond was born October 24th, 2000… Visit his webpage at: http://webpages.charter.net/brinic/tony.html *****
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MM, I am now officially 120 lbs overweight…so I am right there with you.. Bren QOF – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Bren > Three months, three weeks, four days, 23 hours, 42 minutes and 9 seconds. > 1784 cigarettes not smoked, saving $254.06. Life saved: 6 days, 4 hours, 40 > minutes. > This is the part of your life that’s important right now, Bren. Really. > I do understand the "major milestone" problem, though. Since my diagnosis > of Type II diabetes on October 4, I have lost a total of two, yes two, > pounds. When I told a colleague at work that (in addition to the really > good news about my blood glucose levels being under excellent control (yay > me!)) and that I now had "only 113 more pounds to lose", she said "I don’t > even weigh 113". *yikes* I feel the need for the body disposal unit to > take care of her and her less than 113 pounds. :-> > Well, Bren m’dear, it could be worse — you could be *me*. > mm (the OF also known as Jabba the Hutt) m > — > My favourite seasonal song? "Chipmunks roasting on an open fire…"
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> Bren > Three months, three weeks, four days, 23 hours, 42 minutes and 9 seconds. > 1784 cigarettes not smoked, saving $254.06. Life saved: 6 days, 4 hours, 40 > minutes.
This is the part of your life that’s important right now, Bren. Really. I do understand the "major milestone" problem, though. Since my diagnosis of Type II diabetes on October 4, I have lost a total of two, yes two, pounds. When I told a colleague at work that (in addition to the really good news about my blood glucose levels being under excellent control (yay me!)) and that I now had "only 113 more pounds to lose", she said "I don’t even weigh 113". *yikes* I feel the need for the body disposal unit to take care of her and her less than 113 pounds. :-> Well, Bren m’dear, it could be worse — you could be *me*. mm (the OF also known as Jabba the Hutt) m — My favourite seasonal song? "Chipmunks roasting on an open fire…"
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what you need Bren is a nice hunky guy to chase you around the bedroom for a while…..before you trip and fall into his arms lol….then get a little sexercise <wg> padders (
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Anyone married in Maui? We have a wedding date set in Maui in the fall. We would love some advice, some do’s and don’ts! Thanks Jody
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well I didn’t get married there but I just got back from a vacation there on Tuesday. Parts of the island are extremely beautiful. If you want any tourist advice on things to do other than the wedding related ones email me. Heather – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Anyone married in Maui? We have a wedding date set in Maui in the fall. >We would love some advice, some do’s and don’ts! >Thanks >Jody
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>Anyone married in Maui? We have a wedding date set in Maui in the fall. >We would love some advice, some do’s and don’ts!
Here’s a few (personal) Maui/Hawaii wedding sites from the Destination Wedding Ring. Maybe they can help, or you can contact them and compare notes: http://www.geocities.com/mauiwedding/ they were recently a "Way Cool Wedding", and their Maui wedding will be on June 29, 2000 http://slip.net/~micalb/index.htm they were married on April 11, 2000 in Kihei, Maui http://www.angelfire.com/pa/iceraewed/hawaii.html they had their wedding at "Above Heaven’s Gate" Hope that helps — good luck! Robyn Destination Wedding Ring and Message Board/Chat http://www.delphi.com/destinationwed/start/
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Congrats on the rings. I think I picked out a ring I liked at Cartier (my jewler can duplicate for a fraction of the cost!!). Kim’s ring is about finished in wax. We will check it out soon and give it the thumbs up! Later, Joe (to Kim 6/3/00) * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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Joe wrote > I think I picked out a ring I liked at Cartier (my jewler can > duplicate for a fraction of the cost!!).
Joe – Is that the rolling ring? DF really likes it as well. Liz (to Jim, Nov. 11, 2000)
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woo hoo, just got an email from my sweetie that our rings are in! he’s going to go get his sized, and do the engraving!! i am so excited! we’re going with very plain rings, both platinum, both comfort fit round…mine is 3 mm. my e-ring is a 3-stone setting oOo, set very low…i was looking for a ring with stones, but also wanted something that i could wear on its own (not a ring curved to fit)…and the plain just looks wonderful, and also fits my idea of what a wedding ring *should* look like (both my parents have plain bands, i guess that’s where i got it!). nik’s is 6 mm, plain comfort fit round platinum! YAY! it’s really coming. now we just gotta address those invites! lissie (& nik, 7/1/2000)
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I am new to NC and trying to plan a wedding. Any vendor help would be appreciated!! Thanks! Before you buy.
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What part of NC are you looking at? Our wedding is being held in the Chapel Hill area of NC. I can refer you to lots of great vendors in the triangle area if it will help you. Anne – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I am new to NC and trying to plan a wedding. Any vendor help would be > appreciated!! > Thanks! > Before you buy.
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I’m getting married in Durham, NC in September, and have lots of info on Triangle area vendors. A friend is getting married in western NC in October, so I might have some info for the mountains, too. Let me know what you need. Leslie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I am new to NC and trying to plan a wedding. Any vendor help would be > appreciated!! > Thanks! > Before you buy.
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I was married in Durham, NC. I have a few (good and bad) recommendations! > I am new to NC and trying to plan a wedding. Any vendor help would be > appreciated!! > Thanks! > Before you buy.
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Hi again – I have started a NC wedding ring after reading your posts. The URL is: http://www.geocities.com/ResearchTriangle/Facility/9101/Wedding_Archi… (It is still in the baby stages and the kinks are being worked out since I am newbie at it! Please stop by if you have a NC webpage) I was married in July and I had to find most vendors through the yellow pages. Most were good – some were not. I am planning to add a page to my personal site listing every vendor I used. Thanks for the idea and good luck! Season www.geocities.com/~sdgard Before you buy.
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