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I dont think there is a tradition. actually my DH inherited one before we even met. and some families never owned and never will own one. If DH didnt already have one, we probably would never own one either. I just see it as something to stub my foot on every night. Also you shouldnt set rules on "X must give me …" If you get one as a gift .. great, if not it might be nice for both of you to go shopping for one. Niki,
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Please help stop an argument between my boyfriend and I. > Who should give the Hope Chest…parents or Fiance??? > Thanks
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wow your good… ya i do want my fiance to buy it. In my family it is the man who buys the hopechest for his finace….In his family the parents buy the hopechest. So I guess I may just have to buy my own. Oh well that way I can pick one out I really like 
Thanks for your input Bonnie
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FWIW–I think the moms of young girls typically start them off with their Hope Chests, so I’d guess it’s mother-daughter effort? Shannon
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My Two older brothers gave me mine on my sixteenth birthday. By the time I was married I had it filled with all manner of things for my home. For Christmas and birthday presents from then on I usually received things for my home. Towels, small appliances, dishes and the like. I didn’t really make a lot of hand-embroidered towels and such but I had a lot of stuff in that hope chest, in a way it was the very first piece of furniture I ever owned. I am now 50 years old and I still have my hope chest. If you want one go buy it yourself or hint that you want one for Christmas or your birthday. It seems to me, you want your fianc
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According to a book I’ve been reading (The Complete Australian Wedding Planner Kit) – the groom pays for the brides bouquet and the buttonholes for himself and his attendants. The brides father pays for the rest. Hope this helps Bri
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi > Who is supposed to pay for the brides flowers and the flowers for the wedding? > Thanks, > JJ
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> Hi > Who is supposed to pay for the brides flowers and the flowers for the wedding? > Thanks, > JJ
Traditionally, and even today in some cases, the Groom is expected to pay for the flowers in the church and for the wedding party and the bride’s parents pay for the flowers at the reception venue. hth st www.net-weddings.co.uk The UK’s on-line wedding services directory
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>Who is supposed to pay for the brides flowers and the flowers for the wedding?
What I am about to give you is the traditional list of responsibilities as given by Emily Post’s 16th Edition etiquette. Even though there is a traditional list, it comes with the caveat that brides and grooms who are grown and living on their own should be responsible enough to pay for their own wedding. Family members may contribute as they so desire, but no one family or person should bear the cost of a wedding for two mature persons. Letitia Baldrige and Judith Martin also recognize that in this day and age, the bride and groom are typically older, working, living on their own and thus are responsible for paying for their own wedding. It is also noted that no one should ever go into debt to pay for a wedding. Having said that, here’s the traditional list: Expenses of the Bride and Her Family: Services of a bridal consultant and/or secretary Invitations, announcements, enclosures and postage The bride’s wedding dress and accessories Floral decorations for the ceremony and reception, bridesmaids’ flowers, bride’s bouquet (in some areas the bride’s bouquet is given by the groom) Formal wedding photographs and candid pictures Videotape recording of the wedding Music for church and reception Transportation of bridal party to ceremony, and from ceremony to reception, if hired cars are used All expense of reception Bride’s present to her attendants Bride’s present to groom, if she wishes to give him one The groom’s ring, if it is to be a double-ring ceremony Rental of awning for ceremony entrance and carpet for aisle, if desired and if not provided by church Fee for services performed by sexton A traffic officer, if necessary Transportation and lodging expenses for pastor or rabbi if from another town and if invited to officiate by bride’s family. Accommodations for bride’s attendants, if required Bridesmaids’ luncheon, if one is given by the bride Expenses of the Groom and His Family Bride’s engagement ring and wedding rings Groom’s present to his bride, if he wishes to give her one Gifts for the groom’s attendants Boutonnieres for the groom’s attendants Ties and gloves for the groom’s attendants, if not part of their clothing rental package The bride’s bouquet in areas where local custom requires it The bride’s going-away corsage Corsages for immediate members of both families (unless bride has included them in her florist’s order) The minister’s or rabbi’s fee or donation Transportation and lodging expenses for the minister or rabbi if from another town and if invited to officiate by the groom’s family The marriage license Transportation for the groom and the best man to the ceremony All costs of the rehearsal dinner, if one is held Bachelor dinner, if he wishes to give one Accommodations for the groom’s attendants, if required Transportation and lodging expenses for the groom’s parents Bridesmaids’/Honor Attendants’ Expenses Purchase of apparel and all accessories Transportation to and from the city or town where the wedding takes place A contribution to a gift from all the bridesmaids to the bride An individual gift to the couple A shower and/or luncheon for the bride, if given Ushers’/Best Man’s Expenses Rental of wedding attire Transportation to and from the location of wedding A contribution to a gift from all the groom’s attendants to the groom An individual gift to the couple A bachelor dinner, if given by the groom’s attendants Hope this helps, Noe
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> Who is supposed to pay for the brides flowers and the flowers for the wedding?
Flowers? How vulgar! . . . I’m sorry, someone else is channeling thru me. Nukie knows! — http://Nukies.com
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I think it’s amazing that the people who say to follow all the ettiquette rules about dress and other parts of the wedding are the ones who say the heck with the groom not seeing the bride in her dress before the wedding.. Hmmmmmm… makes you wonder what other rules (?) or traditions that they threw out the window.. I think the bride and groom not seeing each other before the wedding is more in line with a tradition than a superstition…But then most traditions are flaunted these days as being old fashioned and not having any merit, that is unless it’s something that has to do with the rules set up by one of the ettiquette mavons… I’m just happy that I had the special time before the wedding to spend with my daughter but if she had spent the night in her and her FH’s apartment that would have been missed…..I was thrilled when she asked me to help her with her dress.. that was a once in a lifetime moment that I’ll never forget…
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> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days. > Any advice?
Yes. You actually get to CHOOSE which superstitions you believe in and which you don’t. It’s your choice…. (Some people believe that trusting in ANY superstitions just means you don’t have to think things out for yourself, that you’re willing to have other people do your thinking for you.) gloria p
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>> It’s *his* wedding too, & he had equal say in *everything* that
went on that day.<< Well, my FH had equal say in *everything* that went into planning our wedding. However … <g> He hasn’t seen my dress at all. And, when I happened to be going out of town the same weekend that he was choosing his tuxedo, his father was quite surprised that I didn’t want to see pictures first so that I could put my "seal of approval" on his wardrobe. My thinking was that I trust him and I want him to feel comfortable, so he can wear whatever he wants. So, yeah, we have collaborated 110% on every area of the wedding that affected both of us, but when it came to wardrobe, we felt that we trusted each other enough to make those decisions for ourselves. Mary <who is currently sick with strep throat 
> to Phil in 10 days!! to Phil
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>I think there’s something about the moment that is overwhelming >no matter what’s gone before.
I have to agree. We had arranged to see each other alone before we started pics (before the wedding). As I stepped out of the bedroom, his eyes filled with tears. It was one of those moments I will never forget. No bad luck here. ag
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> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day?
I don’t know if someone already mentioned this but there is a tradition where the groom will see the bride right before the ceremony to make sure he is going to marry the right woman!! I can just imagine… "Hey, are you who I think you are?" SJ
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This will sound silly so please bear with me. Should the engagement ring be closer to your hand than the wedding ring? Should you be wearing the engagement ring at all during the ceremony? Very confused. I’ve seen women wearing bands close to the hand followed by this big rock of a ring and viceversa. I’ve read in books that the wedding band should come after the engagement ring to help keep it in place. Like I said, I’m confused. Anyone? SJ
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In a previous article, Sarah Jean Hartnell said… > Should the engagement ring be closer to your hand than the wedding ring? > Should you be wearing the engagement ring at all during the ceremony? > Very confused.
You wear your wedding ring first, typically; ‘closer to your heart.’ In most weddings I’ve photographed, the engagement ring is worn on the bride’s right hand during the ceremony, then transferred to the left hand, outside the wedding band, at some later time. hth — Joe Pucillo Baltimore, Maryland USA To reply by email, please remove the .xx from the address.
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Many people choose to get the two rings soldered (did I spell it right this time?) together. That can be done before or after the wedding. We chose to do it before hand since we are moving 3,000 right after the wedding and do not need anything else to worry about in those final few days. My understanding is that the wedding ring (not the engagement ring) is supposed to be worn closest to the heart, therefore being the first ring on the hand. — Kim < June 30th 2001 > – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> This will sound silly so please bear with me. > Should the engagement ring be closer to your hand than the wedding ring? > Should you be wearing the engagement ring at all during the ceremony? > Very confused. > I’ve seen women wearing bands close to the hand followed by this big rock > of a ring and viceversa. I’ve read in books that the wedding band should > come after the engagement ring to help keep it in place. > Like I said, I’m confused. > Anyone? > SJ
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>I don’t know if someone already mentioned this but there is a tradition >where the groom will see the bride right before the ceremony to make sure >he is going to marry the right woman!!
This is a Jewish custom, which derives from the biblical story in which Jacob was tricked into marrying Leah rather than Rachel (who he really loved and intended to marry), because she hid her face from him during the ceremony. IIRC (I’m not Jewish myself, but grew up with and have attended the weddings of several friends who are), the custom is that just before the ceremony, the bride and groom sign the ketubah (marriage contract), and then the groom gazes into the bride’s face (confirming that she is, indeed, the woman he has chosen to marry) and then lowers the veil over her face. -HB
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If I would have included the groom, he would have been bored to tears. "yup that one is nice, lets get it.." Actually he is very helpful when it comes to helping me pick out clothes, and gets a bit huffy if I turn down his suggestions, so buying a dress together woiuld have been very interesting… If he likes to help you shop, then great! I just had more fun with a group of girls trying on fluffy dresses and getting weepy. Felt like we were kids in a dress up shop! I don’t think it is bad luck if he sees the dress, but I do want to keep it a surprise! The dress IS hanging in our spare room closet, so he could see it if he wanted to. Jenn – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days. > Any advice? > — > See ya! > Vicki Cleaver > http://kittecat.cjb.net > Take out the litter to email me. > On newsgroups, all posters are equal. Some are just more equal than > others.
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My daughter’s now husband wanted to be in on everything to do with the wedding, but the dress is the one thing that we put our foot down on.. He saw the dress in a book and he did say he liked it.. We really wanted him to be surprised when he saw her in it.. As a matter of fact, since most of my daughter’s familiy and friends were coming from out of town, she used the bridal suite the night before the wedding and after the rehearsal dinner, we met with some of the out of towners for an impromptu batchelorette party… We were doing some last minute assembly on the aisle bows and having a great time together.. My daughter was so glad to have that time to spend that was just for her… Thank goodness we insisted that he stay with his Mom for that night… As a matter of fact, I think it was important that he spend his last night as a single man with his Mother.. I’m sure she appreciated it, even if he didn’t…
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And that is the best reason I can think of for the groom not to see the bride in the dress till she comes down the aisle.. The look on my daughter’s husbands face, was priceless…. And worth all the hassle to keep him from seeing her before hand…
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> And that is the best reason I can think of for the groom not to see the bride > in the dress till she comes down the aisle.. The look on my daughter’s husbands > face, was priceless…. And worth all the hassle to keep him from seeing her > before hand…
I’m not so sure that look is because it’s the first time he’s seen the dress, though. My husband had that same deer-in- the-headlights look when I showed up at the end of the aisle, even though he’d seen the dress (and me in it) previously. I think there’s something about the moment that is overwhelming no matter what’s gone before. YMMV, Ericka — The return address on this message works, but it goes to an account I weed out only on occasion. To send me email, send to my first name dot my last name at home dot com and watch the spelling 
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> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days. > Any advice?
The exact nature and practice of superstitions is extremely variable and personal. If you want your groom to see your dress, you in your dress, whatever at any point before the wedding, I highly doubt that lightening will strike you dead, or that any hope of a happy marriage will have been dashed by this act alone. If you want him to see the dress, and he wants to see the dress, then by all means show it to him. My fiance does not want to see the dress (let alone me in it) before the wedding. I think it’s a silly custom, and would actually kind of preferred to get all of our photos out of the way before the ceremony, so we aren’t rushed or holding up dinner. Oh well. –twinkle to ms 7/7/01
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Mine too. My husband and I had spent the previous 1 1/2 hours taking pictures (with me in the dress) and he still had that amazed look on his face as he met me at the end of the aisle. He even lost count while circling me three times because he was so spaced. — Melissa 3/18/2001
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> And that is the best reason I can think of for the groom not to see the bride > in the dress till she comes down the aisle.. The look on my daughter’s husbands > face, was priceless…. And worth all the hassle to keep him from seeing her > before hand… > I’m not so sure that look is because it’s the first time > he’s seen the dress, though. My husband had that same deer-in- > the-headlights look when I showed up at the end of the aisle, > even though he’d seen the dress (and me in it) previously. > I think there’s something about the moment that is overwhelming > no matter what’s gone before. > YMMV, > Ericka > — > The return address on this message works, but it goes to an > account I weed out only on occasion. To send me email, send to > my first name dot my last name at home dot com > and watch the spelling
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> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day?
I’d heard that the supersitition was only about the wedding day, but most women I know who go by this don’t let their fiances see the dress *at all* until they’re walking down the aisle. > My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one!
I totally agree w/you! I couldn’t imagine my husband having never seen my wedding dress before the actual event. After all, I had a say in what he wore for the wedding, so he had a say in what I wore for the wedding. When I first started thinking about what I wanted my wedding dress to be, I consulted with my husband about it. I was designing my own gown, & there were 3 very different designs I was considering. I got opinions from various ppl, not the least of which was my husband. Good thing too, because he really didn’t like 2 of the designs (& it was the general consensus of everyone I talked to as well). Likewise, we designed his wedding outfit, & I had a lot of input into that (of course, I helped make some of it too . I would *never* have surprised my husband with any other wedding element. I wouldn’t say "sorry hon, you can’t see the minister till our wedding day" or "you can’t go to the caterer’s tasting because I want the food to be a surprise." It’s *his* wedding too, & he had equal say in *everything* that went on that day. Ppl go on about the "romance" of first seeing the bride in her wedding dress walk down the aisle. Well, according to my husband, it was no less romantic seeing me walk down the aisle on our wedding day. He may have seen the dress, but he hadn’t seen it w/all the trimmings (hairdo, veil, jewelry, makeup, flowers). And besides, when he’d seen the dress before, it wasn’t a minute before we were going to be married! The meaning of the day & having all yr friends & family being there is what makes it special, not a surprise dress. –T. (Oh, & if he sees you in the dress before the ceremony, you can do pix then, which is the most convenient way to go. You don’t miss out seeing your guests as much . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . gothic martha stewart & all-around crafty chick C7 fashion show — www.convergence7.com . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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My groom saw my dress, but not on me, prior to the wedding. His reaction when he saw me in the dress the day of the wedding was one of my favorite parts of the day. He was speechless. Actually, he kept repeating the same phrase in Ukrainian over and over, and finally the minister said, "Can he say anything else? I guess he is happy." (No one else understood what he was saying except me–and it was nice.) I don’t care about the superstition, but his reaction was priceless.
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>I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t >see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the >wedding day?
An *old* Emily Post discusses this not in terms of superstition, but in terms of anticipation. She said waaaaaay back when that the groom does not see his bride in the dress at the church until time for her entrance. That means he did see her on prior to the wedding on that day and that it’s possible he did see her gown prior to the wedding day. However, waaaaay back when, it was not common that men were interested in dresses and such. Grooms simply lit up when they saw their lovely bride walking down the aisle, the dress being an accessory to her own radiance. Hope this helps, Noe
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Baltigirl wrote… > I do think it’s "bad luck" if the bride and groom beat each other senseless > before the wedding, keep huge secrets from each other, or sleep around with > members of the bridal party before the big day.
It sounds like you had an interesting weekend… — Joe Pucillo Baltimore, Maryland USA To reply by email, please remove the .xx from the address.
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> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days.
It depends on which version of the superstition you’re going for Some people believe that the groom shouldn’t ever see the bride in her dress, and others think it only applies to the wedding day. I’m guessing the former couldn’t possibly have been in force for too long, as many women got married in dresses they already owned and which their prospective husbands had probably seen. If it helps, my husband saw me in my wedding gown several times before the wedding and on the day of the wedding, and we’ve been happily married for eight years and have two kids Take care, Ericka — The return address on this message works, but it goes to an account I weed out only on occasion. To send me email, send to my first name dot my last name at home dot com and watch the spelling
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Baltigirl wrote… > I do think it’s "bad luck" if the bride and groom beat each other >senseless > before the wedding, keep huge secrets from each other, or sleep around >with > members of the bridal party before the big day. >It sounds like you had an interesting weekend… >– >Joe Pucillo >Baltimore, Maryland USA >To reply by email, please remove the .xx from the address.
LOL. I spent my weekend out of trouble at the florist’s, devoting hours to the big tulips vs. calla lilies debate. I did not want to keep any of this a secret from my fiance, but when I tried to tell him about the pros and cons of the parrot tulip, he yawned and rubbed his eyes. Actually, I do have friends who recently married that somewhat fit my above description. There was some quasi-infidelity a few months before the wedding (the bride, not the groom, in fact, and this is information I really wish I didn’t know) and you should see the two of them fight–no physical abuse, but the curses they scream at each other! In front of other people, too! Compared to that, my under-the-breath comments about the other drivers on the BW Parkway at rush hour would be considered "tender!" Of course, at their wedding, bride went to SUCH extreme lengths to make sure that there was NO CHANCE that the groom would see her before the ceremony–he actually stayed in a seperate hotel several miles away from where she and the rest of the wedding guests were staying…an important measure to take…after all, you know what bad luck can do to a marriage.
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Not if you’re Jewish! In a traditional Jewish wedding ceremony, the groom actually places the veil on the bride before the wedding, so he absolutely sees her in the dress beforehand. I’m Jewish and there are people in my family who have been married for more than 60 years who did that tradition, so I guess the "bad luck curse" doesn’t apply to us! I do think it’s "bad luck" if the bride and groom beat each other senseless before the wedding, keep huge secrets from each other, or sleep around with members of the bridal party before the big day. The dress superstition, however, is not one I’ve ever attributed much meaning to. says… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t >see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the >wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together >about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been >with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said >that it’s popular to include the groom these days. >Any advice? >– >See ya! >Vicki Cleaver >http://kittecat.cjb.net >Take out the litter to email me. >On newsgroups, all posters are equal. Some are just more equal than >others.
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My fiance was with me when I bought my dress. I think the tradition is that the groom does not see the dress at all before the wedding. That is what my mom wanted, anyway. There is no way that was going to happen as I wanted his opinion of the dress. Afterall, I want to have a dress that he thinks is flattering on me and I value his opinion. Besides, I know what his clothes look like, so why shouldn’t he see mine? If it means a lot to you to not have him the see the dress, go for it. For me, however, it seems like a really difficult and unnecessary tradiation to keep. — Kim < June 30th 2001 >
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days. > Any advice? > — > See ya! > Vicki Cleaver > http://kittecat.cjb.net > Take out the litter to email me. > On newsgroups, all posters are equal. Some are just more equal than > others.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->My fiance was with me when I bought my dress. I think the tradition is that >the groom does not see the dress at all before the wedding. That is what my >mom wanted, anyway. There is no way that was going to happen as I wanted >his opinion of the dress. Afterall, I want to have a dress that he thinks >is flattering on me and I value his opinion. Besides, I know what his >clothes look like, so why shouldn’t he see mine? If it means a lot to you >to not have him the see the dress, go for it. For me, however, it seems >like a really difficult and unnecessary tradiation to keep. >– >Kim >< June 30th 2001 > > I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t > see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the > wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together > about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s >been > with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said > that it’s popular to include the groom these days. > Any advice? > — > See ya! > Vicki Cleaver > http://kittecat.cjb.net > Take out the litter to email me. > On newsgroups, all posters are equal. Some are just more equal than > others.
I’m wearing my mother’s wedding dress. My fiance saw a picture of my mother on her wedding day, so does that count? When we picked it up from the cleaners, though, the lady there made him go away until we had it in the car. Thought that was cute. shanihn
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I know it’s only a superstition, but is it true that the groom shouldn’t see the bride in her dress *ever* before the wedding, or only on the wedding day? My FH and I are making absolutely every decision together about this wedding and I don’t like leaving him out on this one! He’s been with me a couple of times that I’ve been looking and some stores have said that it’s popular to include the groom these days. Any advice? — See ya! Vicki Cleaver http://kittecat.cjb.net Take out the litter to email me. On newsgroups, all posters are equal. Some are just more equal than others.
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> I was contemplating getting a wrap for a wedding ring also, What I > don’t understand, is what is the point of soldering? Look? Comfort? My > DF mentioned someone else he knows had it done so I could do mine that > way, if I wanted, I however am still on the fence about the whole > idea. Any comments on how it worked for you? or Kim? Is large gaps a > common thing?
If they aren’t soldered, they don’t fit together very well. I tried mine on many times before it was soldered and the two pieces did not stay together very well. As well, I have heard that it’s a lot easier to lose them if they are not soldered. I’m not sure why that would be, but I know a few people who have lost their un-soldered rings. Maybe because they’re one larger ring rather than two smaller ones? Personally, I think it looks nicer as well. It is "supposed" to look smooth and clean… basically like one ring rather than 2. Having gaps the first time around seems pretty common. I talked to a friend who has hers soldered and she said they had to take it back 5 times to get it right.
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My wedding ring is also a wrap. We sent both the engagement and wedding ring out together to get fitted for when they will be soldered after the big day. The first time they came back, there was a large gap, probably similar to yours. We explained to the jeweler that we didn’t want the gap, and it has since been fixed after sending it out again.
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Thanks to everyone who pointed out that I cannot spell, but unfortunately, > no one answered my question. > — > Kim > < June 30th 2001 >
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> My wedding ring is also a wrap. We sent both the engagement and wedding > ring out together to get fitted for when they will be soldered after the > big day.
I was contemplating getting a wrap for a wedding ring also, What I don’t understand, is what is the point of soldering? Look? Comfort? My DF mentioned someone else he knows had it done so I could do mine that way, if I wanted, I however am still on the fence about the whole idea. Any comments on how it worked for you? or Kim? Is large gaps a common thing? Thanks Raelynn to Jason 1/12/02
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>My, that was helpful. > Yes, it was. > I am not surprised though that anyone who was stupid enough to get their rings > SOLDERED wouldn’t know how to spell it. > Ron Ng Knows!
Since Ron keeps yelling "SOLDERED" we can all assume he knows how to spell it now. Quick, somebody give him a treat so he can go back to his corner and gloat over the prize he just won. Rick
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> > That’s SOLDERED. > That is not a sentence. How VULGAR.
Actually, it is a sentence. A sentence must have a subject (that) and a predicate (is). The same way ‘I am.’ is a sentence. — Melissa (Who grew up in a household where one couldn’t end a sentence with a preposition, but failed grammar anyway.) 3/18/2001
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Thanks to everyone who pointed out that I cannot spell, but unfortunately, no one answered my question. — Kim < June 30th 2001 >
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this week. > There is a big gap between the two rings and they are not lined up properly. > It still looks nice, but they did not do a seamless job as I had expected. > Is this normal? What experiences have others had with wraps? Should I take > it back and ask them to fix it? > I was also quite upset that, despite the fact that we bought all 3 rings at > the same store, they still charged us $25 for saudering. Is that normal? > — > Kim > < June 30th 2001 >
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>I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this week. > That’s SOLDERED. > Ron Ng Knows!
My, that was helpful. Why don’t you try answering a question once in awhile instead of slamming people for spelling errors?
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>My, that was helpful.
Yes, it was. I am not surprised though that anyone who was stupid enough to get their rings SOLDERED wouldn’t know how to spell it. Ron Ng Knows!
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I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this week. There is a big gap between the two rings and they are not lined up properly. It still looks nice, but they did not do a seamless job as I had expected. Is this normal? What experiences have others had with wraps? Should I take it back and ask them to fix it? I was also quite upset that, despite the fact that we bought all 3 rings at the same store, they still charged us $25 for saudering. Is that normal? — Kim < June 30th 2001 >
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>I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this week.
That’s SOLDERED. Ron Ng Knows!
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>I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this week. > That’s SOLDERED. > Ron Ng Knows!
Watch out! The spelling police are out in force. Ron, next time you might want to try using correct English and sentence structure. After all, we all come here for English lessons from you. > That’s SOLDERED.
That is not a sentence. How VULGAR. Rick
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >I just picked up my ring as I had the wrap and solitaire saudered this > week. > That’s SOLDERED. > Ron Ng Knows! > Watch out! The spelling police are out in force. > Ron, next time you might want to try using correct English and sentence > structure. After all, we all come here for English lessons from you. > That’s SOLDERED. > That is not a sentence. How VULGAR. > Rick
Um, "That’s SOLDERED." is a sentence. That’s is a contraction of that is. You’ve got pronoun and verb there. It’s such fun trying to teach a beginning reader that not all English words are pronounced as they are written. We had loads of fun in my household with would/could/should. — aMAZon "It’s never too late to have a happy childhood."
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> lol padders – made me laugh > Liz > not showing this one to DH!
I don’t understand. Was that a humorous post? Ducking, Rob Two months, two weeks, 23 hours, 24 minutes and 16 seconds. Aw, heck, two months, two weeks and 1 day!
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lol padders – made me laugh Liz not showing this one to DH!
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THIS IS FOR MEN TIRED OF RECEIVING MALE BASHING JOKES How many men does it take to open a beer? None. It should be opened by the time she brings it. Why is a Laundromat a really bad place to pick up a woman? Because a woman who can’t even afford a washing machine will probably never be able to support you. Why do women have smaller feet than men? It’s one of those "evolutionary things" that allows them to stand closer to the kitchen sink. How do you know when a woman is about to say something smart? When she starts her sentence with "A man once told me . . ." How do you fix a woman’s watch? You don’t There is a clock on the oven. Why do men fart more than women? Because women can’t shut up long enough to build up the required pressure. If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first? The dog of course. He’ll shut up once you let him in. What’s worse than a Male Chauvinist Pig? A woman that won’t do what she’s told. I married Miss Right. I just didn’t know her first name was Always. I haven’t spoken to my wife for 18 months: I don’t like to interrupt her. What do you call a woman who has lost 95% of her intelligence? Divorced. Scientists have discovered a food that diminishes a woman’s sex drive by 90%. It is called Wedding Cake. Marriage is a 3 ring circus: Engagement Ring, Wedding Ring, Suffering. Our last fight was my fault: My wife asked me "What’s on the TV?" And I said, "Dust!" In the beginning, God created the earth and rested. Then God created Man and rested. Then God created Woman. Since then, neither God nor Man has rested. Why do men die before their wives? They want to. A beggar walked up to a well-dressed woman shopping on Rodeo Drive and said, "I haven’t eaten anything in four days." She looked at him and said, "God, I wish I had your willpower."
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THIS IS FOR MEN TIRED OF RECEIVING MALE BASHING JOKES How many men does it take to open a beer? None. It should be opened by the time she brings it. Why is a Laundromat a really bad place to pick up a woman? Because a woman who can’t even afford a washing machine will probably never be able to support you. Why do women have smaller feet than men? It’s one of those "evolutionary things" that allows them to stand closer to the kitchen sink. How do you know when a woman is about to say something smart? When she starts her sentence with "A man once told me . . ." How do you fix a woman’s watch? You don’t There is a clock on the oven. Why do men fart more than women? Because women can’t shut up long enough to build up the required pressure. If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first? The dog of course. He’ll shut up once you let him in. What’s worse than a Male Chauvinist Pig? A woman that won’t do what she’s told. I married Miss Right. I just didn’t know her first name was Always. I haven’t spoken to my wife for 18 months: I don’t like to interrupt her. What do you call a woman who has lost 95% of her intelligence? Divorced. Scientists have discovered a food that diminishes a woman’s sex drive by 90%. It is called Wedding Cake. Marriage is a 3 ring circus: Engagement Ring, Wedding Ring, Suffering. Our last fight was my fault: My wife asked me "What’s on the TV?" And I said, "Dust!" In the beginning, God created the earth and rested. Then God created Man and rested. Then God created Woman. Since then, neither God nor Man has rested. Why do men die before their wives? They want to. A beggar walked up to a well-dressed woman shopping on Rodeo Drive and said, "I haven’t eaten anything in four days." She looked at him and said, "God, I wish I had your willpower."
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lol padders – made me laugh Liz not showing this one to DH!
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> lol padders – made me laugh > Liz > not showing this one to DH!
I don’t understand. Was that a humorous post? Ducking, Rob Two months, two weeks, 23 hours, 24 minutes and 16 seconds. Aw, heck, two months, two weeks and 1 day!
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Go slow cause Dad is in the military and has access to guns, geeze. Bob W — Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! >I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are >pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to >Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle down and >devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and have >a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to help >fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time >employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all >their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet >– > Mama >~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My >Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- >"It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > Bob W > — > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other >things! > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > [...] > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > >’yes’!!!! > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > >Lil Dot
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Don’t you know nuthin, old man? Brides are *supposed* to blush. — Mama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> -To email me: change nest to net- "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> See Mama you made the poor child blush. Hang in there Little Dot, some > folks are just plain……. well you know. > Bob W-I like birds > — > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false >>Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! >>…Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all >>their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet >…you make me blush… >Lil Dot
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Hey! That’s MY dream!!! What do you see in my future oh Great One??? L
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are > pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to > Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle down and > devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and have > a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to help > fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time > employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all > their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > — > Mama > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > Bob W > — > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other > things! > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > [...] > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > >’yes’!!!! > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > >Lil Dot
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Antonio is for me!!! Mari-Sue
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>(PLEASE don’t tell me you have an Antonio Banderas dream!!!)
Mine is Robert plant, what can you do with him? Denise & Brian (Spaz & Bobbi) Four bananas, three bananas, two bananas, one, All bananas playing in the bright warm sun. Flipping like a pancake, popping like a cork, Fleagle, Bingo, Drooper, and Snork! Tra la la, la la la la Tra la la, la la la la
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Lil Dot! That’s great! I have been following your posts with great interest and concern. I have been worried about saying anything that would be contrary to your father’s views. I am so glad you have made this new friend and that he is letting you play with his bird. I don’t give up hope on your Dad, he may have other concerns about pets that are very real, like having to move around alot –most military families do. Have fun with your new friend. Mari-Sue
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Very nice, Mamabird! I was going to start one about Antonio Banderas, then I keep remembering something my grandmother once told me: "All men’s socks smell the same when you fish them out of the laundry basket to wash ‘em." Took all the romance out of my youth when all I could think about wondering if so-and-so’s socks smelled. My grandmother was not much of a romantic. She had 13 live births and 16+ pregnancies. She was a real live baby machine, and her husband did not feel at all guilty because he was able to support them all financially. He was 14 years her senior and they were married when she was 17. Their first born, my mom, was born 3 months after their marriage. He was engaged to a very successful woman his age. The jilted woman gave my grandmother her engagement and wedding rings, her hope chests and the gown. The story is interesting and I will have to write about it someday. My grandmother was the first official Bird Lady of this family. She always had companion birds for as long as I can remember. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > You go to a Ricky concert… front row. The lights go down, the music > starts, the lights come up. > There HE stands, center stage, and peers into the audience as if drawn by > an unknown force… searching. POW!! Your eyes meet and he is suddenly, > irrevocably smitten by your WOMANLY blonde beauty. For the rest of the show > his Bon Bon shakes for you and only you (and you know it!). As he finishes > his last song, with barely concealed pounding passion he shyly reaches out > his hand and draws you gently onto the stage where he rushes you off to his > waiting limo. > He phones Baba Wawa and his words pour out unbidden, "I will now answer > that unanswered question. ‘I was but I am no more.’ My heart, my soul, my > body, my being, now belongs to this glorious female creature sitting beside > me. I am forever a changed man." > You embrace and weep. Baba Wawa weeps. Mamabird weeps (why couldn’t it be > ME?!?!). > You are married barefoot on the pure white sands of a secret Puerto Rico > beach that he alone knows exists. Parrots in every color of the rainbow > swoop down from the dense tropical foliage to carry your bridal train aloft > from the gently surging tide that caresses your ankles, and afterwards, fly > with you back to your honeymoon hide-away where they, and you, and HE live > happily ever after…. Livin’ Lavida Loca. > (PLEASE don’t tell me you have an Antonio Banderas dream!!!) > — > Mama > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > ROTF!! This one’s really good, but let’s hear the (straight) Ricky > Martin > one. WOOHOO…I get to pick!!! > : > > I see you marrying a short, dark, handsome, millionaire, musical genius > who > > will bestow you with an unpronounceable name, sweep you away in his > little > > red Corvette to his purple mansion filled with birds of every > description > > for your pleasure, lay with you on a bed of living flowers watered with > > purple rain and cater to your *every* whim for the rest of your days… > > (or would you rather hear the Ricky Martin dream?) > > — > > Mama > > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > > -To email me: change nest to net- > > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > > Hey! That’s MY dream!!! What do you see in my future oh Great > One??? > > > L > > > > Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > > > > I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they > are > > > > pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising > to > > > > Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle > down > > > and > > > > devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds > and > > have > > > > a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side > to > > > help > > > > fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full > time > > > > employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can > spend > > > all > > > > their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > > > > — > > > > Mama > > > > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And > My > > > > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > > > > -To email me: change nest to net- > > > > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > > > > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > > > > > Bob W > > > > > — > > > > > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two > other > > > > things! > > > > > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > > > > > [...] > > > > > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, > his > > > > > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > > > > > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he > said > > > > > >’yes’!!!! > > > > > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > > > > > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > > > > > >Lil Dot
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You go to a Ricky concert… front row. The lights go down, the music starts, the lights come up. There HE stands, center stage, and peers into the audience as if drawn by an unknown force… searching. POW!! Your eyes meet and he is suddenly, irrevocably smitten by your WOMANLY blonde beauty. For the rest of the show his Bon Bon shakes for you and only you (and you know it!). As he finishes his last song, with barely concealed pounding passion he shyly reaches out his hand and draws you gently onto the stage where he rushes you off to his waiting limo. He phones Baba Wawa and his words pour out unbidden, "I will now answer that unanswered question. ‘I was but I am no more.’ My heart, my soul, my body, my being, now belongs to this glorious female creature sitting beside me. I am forever a changed man." You embrace and weep. Baba Wawa weeps. Mamabird weeps (why couldn’t it be ME?!?!). You are married barefoot on the pure white sands of a secret Puerto Rico beach that he alone knows exists. Parrots in every color of the rainbow swoop down from the dense tropical foliage to carry your bridal train aloft from the gently surging tide that caresses your ankles, and afterwards, fly with you back to your honeymoon hide-away where they, and you, and HE live happily ever after…. Livin’ Lavida Loca. (PLEASE don’t tell me you have an Antonio Banderas dream!!!) — Mama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> -To email me: change nest to net- "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> ROTF!! This one’s really good, but let’s hear the (straight) Ricky Martin > one. WOOHOO…I get to pick!!! > : > I see you marrying a short, dark, handsome, millionaire, musical genius > who > will bestow you with an unpronounceable name, sweep you away in his little > red Corvette to his purple mansion filled with birds of every description > for your pleasure, lay with you on a bed of living flowers watered with > purple rain and cater to your *every* whim for the rest of your days… > (or would you rather hear the Ricky Martin dream?) > — > Mama > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > Hey! That’s MY dream!!! What do you see in my future oh Great One??? > > L > > > Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > > > I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are > > > pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to > > > Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle > down > > and > > > devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and > have > > > a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to > > help > > > fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time > > > employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can > spend > > all > > > their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > > > — > > > Mama > > > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > > > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > > > -To email me: change nest to net- > > > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > > > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > > > > Bob W > > > > — > > > > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other > > > things! > > > > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > > > > [...] > > > > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > > > > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > > > > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > > > > >’yes’!!!! > > > > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > > > > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > > > > >Lil Dot
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – [...] > I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce > me > to jeremy > we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > ‘yes’!!!! > what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > Lil Dot > I,m so happy for you. enjoy getting to know them. you can never have > too many friends. margaret
Especially feathered ones and CUTE ones! <g> — Mama ~^~^~^~
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ROTF!! This one’s really good, but let’s hear the (straight) Ricky Martin one. WOOHOO…I get to pick!!! :
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I see you marrying a short, dark, handsome, millionaire, musical genius who > will bestow you with an unpronounceable name, sweep you away in his little > red Corvette to his purple mansion filled with birds of every description > for your pleasure, lay with you on a bed of living flowers watered with > purple rain and cater to your *every* whim for the rest of your days… > (or would you rather hear the Ricky Martin dream?) > — > Mama > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > Hey! That’s MY dream!!! What do you see in my future oh Great One??? > L > > Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > > I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are > > pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to > > Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle down > and > > devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and > have > > a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to > help > > fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time > > employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend > all > > their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > > — > > Mama > > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > > -To email me: change nest to net- > > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > > > Bob W > > > — > > > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other > > things! > > > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > > > [...] > > > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > > > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > > > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > > > >’yes’!!!! > > > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > > > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > > > >Lil Dot
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I see you marrying a short, dark, handsome, millionaire, musical genius who will bestow you with an unpronounceable name, sweep you away in his little red Corvette to his purple mansion filled with birds of every description for your pleasure, lay with you on a bed of living flowers watered with purple rain and cater to your *every* whim for the rest of your days… (or would you rather hear the Ricky Martin dream?) — Mama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> -To email me: change nest to net- "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hey! That’s MY dream!!! What do you see in my future oh Great One??? > L > Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are > pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to > Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle down > and > devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and have > a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to > help > fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time > employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend > all > their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > — > Mama > ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My > Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- > "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > > Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > > Bob W > > — > > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other > things! > > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > > > [...] > > >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > > >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > > >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > > >’yes’!!!! > > >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > > >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > > >Lil Dot
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Child brides went out of style back when you were a youngen. Modern women get some higher education, see a bit of the world, then settle down with a fine "yes man" and never blush at anything. Can you tell I have a 20 something daughter? Bob W — Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Don’t you know nuthin, old man? Brides are *supposed* to blush. >– > Mama >~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My >Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> > -To email me: change nest to net- >"It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop > See Mama you made the poor child blush. Hang in there Little Dot, some > folks are just plain……. well you know. > Bob W-I like birds > — > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other >things! > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > >>Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! > >>…Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all > >>their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet > >…you make me blush… > >Lil Dot
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>Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! >…Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all >their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet
…you make me blush… Lil Dot
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See Mama you made the poor child blush. Hang in there Little Dot, some folks are just plain……. well you know. Bob W-I like birds — Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! >…Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all >their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet >…you make me blush… >Lil Dot
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my > previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone > individually… > my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and > everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i > have little time for other things… > but… i want everyone to know… > i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! > the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a > cockateil. > I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce > me > to jeremy > we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > ‘yes’!!!! > what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > Lil Dot > I,m so happy for you. enjoy getting to know them. you can never have
too many friends. margaret
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Go slow???? Whaddaya mean GO SLOW?!?! I’ve already got these two lovebirds eloping to Vegas where they are pronounced man and wife by The King his very own self then cruising to Hawaii for a romantic 2 week honeymoon where they decide to settle down and devote the rest of their entire lives to taking in homeless birds and have a lucrative Hyacinth Macaw/Black Palm breeding business on the side to help fund their 100 acre state-of-the-art avian sanctuary and 200 full time employees doing all the dirty work so that Lil Dot and Jeremy can spend all their days lounging around the pool playing with all their pet — Mama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> -To email me: change nest to net- "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Good stuff kid! Go slow now. > Bob W > — > Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! > http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false > [...] >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said >’yes’!!!! >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated >Lil Dot
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Hi Lil Dot, I’m so happy for you! Glad that you found two new friends and that both are cute =) Caryn
: first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my : previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone : individually… : my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and : everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i : have little time for other things… : but… i want everyone to know… : i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! : the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a : cockateil. : I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce : me : to jeremy : we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his : cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… : i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said : ‘yes’!!!! : what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! : i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated : Lil Dot
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Oh, Good for you Lil Dot! Reading this put a smile on my face!! Have fun with your new friends. Jessica
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>Wow, Dot! Sounds like you have made two good friends. How nice that you will >have a bird to visit with.
and a Jeremy to boot! I’d be happy with that arrangement too If I were single still congratulations! Denise & Brian (Spaz & Bobbi) Four bananas, three bananas, two bananas, one, All bananas playing in the bright warm sun. Flipping like a pancake, popping like a cork, Fleagle, Bingo, Drooper, and Snork! Tra la la, la la la la Tra la la, la la la la
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> i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! > i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > ‘yes’!!!! > what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute!
Woooo Hoooooo! You go, girl! What a wonderful solution!! Sandy & Kids
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Good stuff kid! Go slow now. Bob W — Go look at the greatest birds on this planet, And one or two other things! http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=920736&Auth=false – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my >previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone >individually… >my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and >everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i >have little time for other things… >but… i want everyone to know… >i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! >the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a >cockateil. >I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce >me >to jeremy >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said >’yes’!!!! >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated >Lil Dot
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Good deal! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my >previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone >individually… >my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and >everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i >have little time for other things… >but… i want everyone to know… >i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! >the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a >cockateil. >I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce >me >to jeremy >we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his >cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… >i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said >’yes’!!!! >what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! >i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated >Lil Dot
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first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone individually… my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i have little time for other things… but… i want everyone to know… i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a cockateil. I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce me to jeremy we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said ‘yes’!!!! what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated Lil Dot
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Wow, Dot! Sounds like you have made two good friends. How nice that you will have a bird to visit with. — Debbie, Dusty(CAG) and Casperella(U2) See the smartest, prettiest birds http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=66243
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my > previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone > individually… > my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and > everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i > have little time for other things… > but… i want everyone to know… > i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! > the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a > cockateil. > I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce > me > to jeremy > we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > ‘yes’!!!! > what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > Lil Dot
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YEEEEEE HAAAAAAAA!!!!! (Just how cute IS Jeremy?) — Mama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird’s Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Album at: <http://albums.photopoint.com/j/AlbumList?u=442768> -To email me: change nest to net- "It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds." – Aesop
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> first, i want to thank everyone for the kind words and encouragement in my > previous post and to apologize for not responding to everyone > individually… > my free time is limited and after i am done with studies and therapy and > everything else (which takes a lot longer for me to do than most people), i > have little time for other things… > but… i want everyone to know… > i have a new friend and he has a bird!!!!! > the elevator guy told me about new tenants and their son, jeremy, who has a > cockateil. > I managed to slightly change my schedule so the elevator guy can introduce > me > to jeremy > we hit it off pretty good and jeremy let me play with squeeker, his > cockateil… or rather let squeeker play with me… > i asked my dad if i can fit in time with my new friends and he said > ‘yes’!!!! > what joy…. and on top of all that, jeremy is so-o-o-o cute! > i’m having a good week — i’ll keep you updated > Lil Dot
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Recently my wife and I attended a rock festival and in the midst of all our fun she lost her wedding ring. I couldn’t possibly afford to replace it with one similar to the original. However I don’t think it really matters. There is a lot more to getting married than a ring. It does not actually bother me that it has gone I was not angry, I didn’t really care. LOVE, its more imprtant than rings. Before you buy.
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> Recently my wife and I attended a rock festival and in the midst of all > our fun she lost her wedding ring. I couldn’t possibly afford to replace > it with one similar to the original. However I don’t think it really > matters. There is a lot more to getting married than a ring. It does > not actually bother me that it has gone I was not angry, I didn’t really > care. LOVE, its more imprtant than rings.
Sorry to hear that. It’s a wonderful outlook to take, and consider this: You have the perfect anniversary present idea – some time in the future! — Joe Pucillo http://www.JoePucillo.com Baltimore, Maryland USA To reply by email, please remove the .xx from the address.
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>Recently my wife and I attended a rock festival and in the midst of all >our fun she lost her wedding ring. I couldn’t possibly afford to replace >it with one similar to the original.
Sad, but wiser. And thus the importance of insuring valuable items. Noe
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wasn’t it insured? most homeowners policies cover wedding rings. if not, everyone else getting married should look into this! your jewler has to send your insurance company the details of the ring (carat, cut, etc), but it is worth it. i would be devistated if i lost my ring, but i would feel worse if i knew that it would never be replaced!
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> wasn’t it insured? most homeowners policies cover wedding rings. if not, > everyone else getting married should look into this! your jewler has to send > your insurance company the details of the ring (carat, cut, etc), but it is > worth it. i would be devistated if i lost my ring, but i would feel worse if i > knew that it would never be replaced!
The base coverage for our homeowners policy, which I understand to be fairly standard, will only pay $1000 per item, $2500 total for jewelry. After we got married, we had to itemize several pieces of Cathy’s jewelry (including her engagement/wedding set) and my wedding ring in order to get proper coverage. Please, everyone, get your rings insured! Here in Minnesota, there was a story in the news a week or so ago about a bride-to-be that lost her ring down an ice-fishing hole. You never know WHAT might happen to your ring! -Tim Before you buy.
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Insurance is really not that much as long as it is atttached to your home owner policy. I have My FW engagment ring insured and it is about 1% of the value of the ring a year. This includes coverage if she just loses the ring Steve * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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>Please, everyone, get your rings insured!
Why should Rechelle bother? She has a fake ring. No sense in bothering with insurance for THAT. Ron Ng Knows!
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> Insurance is really not that much as long as it is atttached to > your home owner policy. I have My FW engagment ring insured and > it is about 1% of the value of the ring a year. This includes > coverage if she just loses the ring
AND, if it’s like my policy, there’s no deductible for jewelry itemized on the policy. A nice touch if you have a high deductible, like I do. -Tim Before you buy.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->1. Finalizing the details of the catering. We’re having fewer guests than >we’d originally hoped–more like 50 or 60 than 100 or more, but I’m OK with >it. We’ll just have more time to spend with them, and we were able to >splurge a little on the food, particularly with dessert. We’re still going >with a pretty simple luncheon and appertizers buffet, but with a scrumptious >array of cakes, cheesecakes, pies, tiramisu, etc. > Sounds delicious! Was it you who posted about your MOH making an > amazing cake? Is she making another for the reception?
Yeah, that was me, but we decided to forego the cake. I didn’t want to take advantage of Becky’s generosity and make her so overworked she can’t enjoy the wedding. Our cutting cake is what the bakery calls a New Orleans cake. It’s 3-layer, with a white layer between two chocolate layers. The icing is chocolate and white striped. > Mostly traditional, that is. The groom will make his entrance to the U. >of Colorado fight song, > CU-Boulder? That’s where Brian and I both got our master’s degrees!
That’s the one. He got his B.A. in ‘94. >5. I went to Michael’s and got the flowerpots, paint, and florist’s foam we >need for the centerpieces. > What are you doing with centerpieces? I’m contemplating doing those > myself.
Something I saw in a flower arranging book that looked fairly simple. We’re painting the clay pots to coordinate with the reception hall and the flowers. Then, you line the pot with foil, stick a big chunk of soaked florist’s foam in it, and make an arrangement of roses and ivy trimmed very short, making sort of a half-sphere over the rim of the pot. –Susan (and Dylan) 9/4/99
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After the last "3 months to go – update" thread, I realized that we still had a ton of stuff to do, so we’ve done a lot since then! In that time, we have: hired the florist composed, ordered and received invitations asked FH’s step-brothers to be ushers (the only attendants that had yet to be asked, and I was starting to feel really bad about it!) found and bought the flowergirl dress met with the rabbi again found a place to make our wedding rings (now we just have to make a digital file of the pattern so they can do it!) got my first dress fitting scheduled our tasting had our engagement photo session …and probably a few more things I’ve forgotten! The only big thing left is the music – we were going to have a band (FH’s idea), but our plan fell through. He now has until the 20th to find one, or we go with a DJ! Plus a million details – we have to finalize the "out of town" enclosures and make the map so we can actually get invitations out. Plus getting all addresses finalized, etc. (And make sure his mom stops changing his mind – she just added back the people we had had on the B list and she JUST SAID to delete them for sure!) Sorry so long…at least looking at that list makes me feel like we’ve accomplished a lot lately! Irene (& Michael) Oct. 23, 1999
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We have a DATE!! April 22 it is, no moaning and groaning about the Easter/Lent thing, except that Mom is saying that she’s going to be crunched doing the bulletins for all the church services (she’s church secretary), but we’re going to do all the stuff for the ceremony off our computer, so she won’t have to worry about our programs, and she normally tries to have all the bulletins for Easter done early anyway. The folks think an outdoor ceremony at my grandparent’s homestead is way cool, the big issue is reception site and table and chair rental for the ceremony and reception. One reception site has good facilities but icky ambience (BAAAAD junior high memories for me in there) and the other one has no tables or chairs, but plenty of parking and a great site for the fireworks display. My brother was married last year, with just a JP ceremony at the courthouse, and a big party that weekend, and they did NOT want parents present at the actual marriage ceremony. So, even though planning an out and out wedding and reception is going to be a little more stressful, I think she’s excited about doing her daughter’s wedding. Dad is being dad, and going along for the ride. Mom has already volunteered him to build a platform and arbor/trellis for the ceremony at the farm. My sister and I found a great pattern for my dress, (sort of a Grecian column with cowl thing) and the basic dress will also work for the attendants. I also picked up the pattern for the poet’s shirts for the guys, and we’re going to finagle with the costume guy we know about doing their vests. (Ornate vests rather than a suit or tux thing) We’ve pretty much decided on royal blue and silver/ivory as colors. On the TO DO List: I need to call my friend that I want as an attendant when they get back from Ohio. We need to decide if we’re having an engagement picture done. If we’re getting an engagement pic done, do we do picture postcards as the Save the Date announcement? When do we have a reception for our friends where we are now that are going to be unable to attend the wedding in Nebraska? I need to get a general count on guest list from MOG after they get home around Aug. 15. And, of course, the myriad little details that I need to sit down and present to FH for his opinions. Time is going to go WAY too fast!! Marsha and John April 22, 2000
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Everything is just about set to go. I just finished the little poems that go with the disposable cameras yesterday. I have to buy the tulle to wrap them in and attached the poems. My aunt and I are going to be making chocolate candy to use as favors. I am going to order the liquor and beer tomorrow. I will get the centerpieces done within the next few weeks. MOG still is looking for a dress so the lady doing the flowers is waiting for her. The flower lady is still looking for the flowers to put on the cake. We are going tomorrow to apply for the marriage license. Met with the band members last week and set all the music up. I think that just about is everything left other than picking up the tuxes 2 days before the wedding. Pattie (and Jon) 9/11/99
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi, this is Susan of Susan and Dylan, posting from his account. My new job > is keeping me busy and not leaving me much time for the internet, but I’m > still here and our wedding plans are proceeding apace. We’ve gotten enough > done lately that I thought I’d brag a little <g> and start an updates > thread. > Anyway, it’s four weeks to the big day, and our recent accomplishments > include: > 1. Finalizing the details of the catering. We’re having fewer guests than > we’d originally hoped–more like 50 or 60 than 100 or more, but I’m OK with > it. We’ll just have more time to spend with them, and we were able to > splurge a little on the food, particularly with dessert. We’re still going > with a pretty simple luncheon and appertizers buffet, but with a scrumptious > array of cakes, cheesecakes, pies, tiramisu, etc. > 2. Meeting our organist and picking the music. We went with traditional, > but not cliched (we hope): > -Family entrance: "Sheep May Safely Graze," Bach > -Bridesmaids: "Rigaudon," Campra > -Bride: "Allegro Maestoso" from Water Music, Handel > -Recessional: "The Heavens Declare (Psalm 19)", Marcello > Mostly traditional, that is. The groom will make his entrance to the U. > of Colorado fight song, and the song after the official recessional will be > Penn’s main school song, "The Red and the Blue." We’ve also settled that > our pre-ceremony soloist will be singing "The King of Love My Shepherd Is" > and "And Can It Be That I Should Gain." Congregational hymns will be "Guide > Me, O Thou Great Jehovah" and "Be Thou My Vision." Our other soloist is > singing Bruce Cockburn’s "Love Song", and two other brilliantly musical > friends are writing a duet that they’ll sing for us. If we have room, we’ll > include another hymn, maybe "Fairest Lord Jesus" or "To God Be the Glory." > It’s a lot of music, but music is very important to us. > 3. Finalizing our vows, pending ministerial approval. > 4. Not strictly wedding-related, but WE FOUND A PLACE TO LIVE!!!!! And it’s > a *house*, not an apartment. We’re renting–ownership is several years > away–but I’m excited that our first home will be a real house, not an > anonymous apartment. > 5. I went to Michael’s and got the flowerpots, paint, and florist’s foam we > need for the centerpieces. > –Susan (and Dylan) > 9/4/99
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Hi, this is Susan of Susan and Dylan, posting from his account. My new job >is keeping me busy and not leaving me much time for the internet, but I’m >still here and our wedding plans are proceeding apace. We’ve gotten enough >done lately that I thought I’d brag a little <g> and start an updates >thread. >Anyway, it’s four weeks to the big day, and our recent accomplishments >include: >1. Finalizing the details of the catering. We’re having fewer guests than >we’d originally hoped–more like 50 or 60 than 100 or more, but I’m OK with >it. We’ll just have more time to spend with them, and we were able to >splurge a little on the food, particularly with dessert. We’re still going >with a pretty simple luncheon and appertizers buffet, but with a scrumptious >array of cakes, cheesecakes, pies, tiramisu, etc.
Sounds delicious! Was it you who posted about your MOH making an amazing cake? Is she making another for the reception? >2. Meeting our organist and picking the music. We went with traditional, >but not cliched (we hope): >-Family entrance: "Sheep May Safely Graze," Bach >-Bridesmaids: "Rigaudon," Campra >-Bride: "Allegro Maestoso" from Water Music, Handel >-Recessional: "The Heavens Declare (Psalm 19)", Marcello > Mostly traditional, that is. The groom will make his entrance to the U. >of Colorado fight song,
CU-Boulder? That’s where Brian and I both got our master’s degrees! – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->and the song after the official recessional will be >Penn’s main school song, "The Red and the Blue." We’ve also settled that >our pre-ceremony soloist will be singing "The King of Love My Shepherd Is" >and "And Can It Be That I Should Gain." Congregational hymns will be "Guide >Me, O Thou Great Jehovah" and "Be Thou My Vision." Our other soloist is >singing Bruce Cockburn’s "Love Song", and two other brilliantly musical >friends are writing a duet that they’ll sing for us. If we have room, we’ll >include another hymn, maybe "Fairest Lord Jesus" or "To God Be the Glory." >It’s a lot of music, but music is very important to us. >3. Finalizing our vows, pending ministerial approval. >4. Not strictly wedding-related, but WE FOUND A PLACE TO LIVE!!!!! And it’s >a *house*, not an apartment. We’re renting–ownership is several years >away–but I’m excited that our first home will be a real house, not an >anonymous apartment.
How exciting! >5. I went to Michael’s and got the flowerpots, paint, and florist’s foam we >need for the centerpieces.
What are you doing with centerpieces? I’m contemplating doing those myself. As for our recent accomplishments: We took a "hard hat" tour of the hotel where the wedding and reception will be. Construction is really coming along. It looks like the tower is as tall as it will get and now they’re framing up the area where the ballrooms are. Landscaping is supposed to go in shortly and the hotel is scheduled to open in early March (our wedding is in mid-July). We booked our photographer (hi Nathan!). We discovered that people on Brian’s side who we all had pretty much figured would decline the invitation are making plans to attend. His folks have said that if their "count" exceeds the allotment they’d spring for the extra guests. We’re thinking we might want to add some rooms to the group block at the hotel…. We bought the flowers for the bridesmaids’ bouquets. Hopefully, I’ll be able to get them done before reporting for new teacher orientation on the 17th. Brian asked his best man. He had been debating between a good friend from college (who he was best man for) and a friend from junior high that he is still in touch with. He chose the junior high friend. We moved! It’s just around the corner (we can see the old apartment complex from our new apartment) but it’s much nicer. We’re still surrounded by boxes (we’ve only been in the new place for 2 days), but we have the important things unpacked. =) Jennifer (and Brian) July 15, 2000
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You read my mind… I was just thinking of starting an update thread myself. It sounds like you guys are getting alot done! I hope that I can say the same real soon. :-) Jason and I went to meet with our florist again yesterday. This time she met us at the wedding site. First we went over the ceremony location, which will be on a covered verandah overlooking the lake. I decided that I didn’t want flowers out there. With the lake and the view and all, I didn’t want to take away from that, so we were going to keep it as simple as possible. I decided to go with lots and lots of big ferns with tulle bows on them, as well as some groupings of greens on the columns with tulle bows. I wanted everything to be green and white, so that although it looks like there is a wedding there, it also blends in a little with the surroundings. I think I am going to really love it and also it will be very inexpensive (as compared to flowers). On the rental list that our florist gave us, the ferns are only $5 each! I assume the tulle bows might add a couple of dollars, but still, I thought that was a good price! We then went inside to look around the reception room. We decided on more ferns and some ficus trees (all with tulle bows) around the edges of the room to sort of fill in. Then we decided on our centerpieces. We won’t be using any candles since its a daytime wedding. I just couldn’t picture it, so I figured no. So we are going to have one low but wide arrangement in the center of every table in whites, off whites and maybe some hints of blue and lavender. It will be stock, delphinium, roses, daisies… I like that airy ‘wildflower’ look. I told her that as long as there was NO baby’s breath, carnations or leatherleaf fern, I was fine with it (I despise all those things). All over the table I asked her to just kind of lay around some silk ivy, then to put some small glass vases of flowers (maybe 4-6 per table) amongst the ivy and around the main arrangement so that the table looks full of flowers. I suppose this will cost more than I was planning, but since I went with all greens for the ceremony site, why not go a little over the top for the tables, right? Just a little… hehe. We decided on using the same flowers for the buffet tables, only instead of low and wide, we are going high and smaller in tall glass vases. I also asked for ivy to be spread about those tables and maybe a few of the small glass vases of flowers to fill in however she saw fit. We decided on all white and off white for my bouquet, with just a tiny hint of blue. It will be mostly of roses and orchids, with some stephanotis and caspia here and there. For my MOH bouquet, it will be roses, stephanotis, and delphinium… I wanted her bouquet to have more color. Both will be just bunched together and tied with a sheer white ribbon. For corsages we will have orchids, tea roses and caspia (with sheer white bows). Jason’s boutonniere will be all stephanotis with a bit of caspia and the rest of the bouts will be roses and caspia. That is about it for flowers… We have also been working our rears off on our invitations. We are making our own and I’m trying to get them all put together before I go to Orlando next weekend for my first dress fitting. Mom and MOH/Sister are going to help me stuff and address envelopes. I am so glad to finally have an entire weekend with just the women and dedicated to the wedding. I haven’t had this yet and I am so excited. Anyways, about our invites, we bought the envelopes and ribbon yesterday. I put a sample invitation together and I love it! I now just have to get the rest of them put together and what a job that is going to be! It is definitely worth the $150-$200 we are saving, though… not to mention that these are exactly what I wanted and I couldn’t find anything like them anywhere. I would strongly recommend making invitations to anyone! That is about it for now… keep your fingers crossed for me that I get more done in the next couple of weeks. I still don’t have someone to make my cake (although the florist had someone she couldn’t stop talking about, so I may look into that person). How is everyone else doing? What have you got done and still have on your ‘to-do’ list? Stefani and Jason, 10/2/99
> Hi, this is Susan of Susan and Dylan, posting from his account. My new job > is keeping me busy and not leaving me much time for the internet, but I’m > still here and our wedding plans are proceeding apace. We’ve gotten enough > done lately that I thought I’d brag a little <g> and start an updates > thread.
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Hi, this is Susan of Susan and Dylan, posting from his account. My new job is keeping me busy and not leaving me much time for the internet, but I’m still here and our wedding plans are proceeding apace. We’ve gotten enough done lately that I thought I’d brag a little <g> and start an updates thread. Anyway, it’s four weeks to the big day, and our recent accomplishments include: 1. Finalizing the details of the catering. We’re having fewer guests than we’d originally hoped–more like 50 or 60 than 100 or more, but I’m OK with it. We’ll just have more time to spend with them, and we were able to splurge a little on the food, particularly with dessert. We’re still going with a pretty simple luncheon and appertizers buffet, but with a scrumptious array of cakes, cheesecakes, pies, tiramisu, etc. 2. Meeting our organist and picking the music. We went with traditional, but not cliched (we hope): -Family entrance: "Sheep May Safely Graze," Bach -Bridesmaids: "Rigaudon," Campra -Bride: "Allegro Maestoso" from Water Music, Handel -Recessional: "The Heavens Declare (Psalm 19)", Marcello Mostly traditional, that is. The groom will make his entrance to the U. of Colorado fight song, and the song after the official recessional will be Penn’s main school song, "The Red and the Blue." We’ve also settled that our pre-ceremony soloist will be singing "The King of Love My Shepherd Is" and "And Can It Be That I Should Gain." Congregational hymns will be "Guide Me, O Thou Great Jehovah" and "Be Thou My Vision." Our other soloist is singing Bruce Cockburn’s "Love Song", and two other brilliantly musical friends are writing a duet that they’ll sing for us. If we have room, we’ll include another hymn, maybe "Fairest Lord Jesus" or "To God Be the Glory." It’s a lot of music, but music is very important to us. 3. Finalizing our vows, pending ministerial approval. 4. Not strictly wedding-related, but WE FOUND A PLACE TO LIVE!!!!! And it’s a *house*, not an apartment. We’re renting–ownership is several years away–but I’m excited that our first home will be a real house, not an anonymous apartment. 5. I went to Michael’s and got the flowerpots, paint, and florist’s foam we need for the centerpieces. –Susan (and Dylan) 9/4/99
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The Bride continues to wear her engagement ring, while she walks up the isle. You add the wedding band to that ring. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Hi all! >We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We >don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to >put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both >rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! >Teegan
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You can do either, but if she wears it, she will wear it on her right hand, then switch it to the left hand after the ceremony. The wedding band is worn closest to the heart, so the engagement ring is worn on the outside of the wedding band. You can give her both, though. That works too. Some people have them soldered together before the wedding, so they have to do both. I had mine soldered together after the wedding. Either way, the wedding band is first, then the engagement ring ("usually" — some people do the opposite). Kelli – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > Hi all! > We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! > Teegan
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She probably wanted to have it on when she was walking down the aisle and for the beginning of the ceremony, but it wouldn’t fit on her other ring finger… just a guess. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Strange… why wouldn’t she take the e-ring off?
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> My best friend just got married Saturday…she absolutly refused to take her > e-ring off…so the groom put the band on on top of the e-ring…and me > doing my moh duties made sure she switched them before the ring shot picture > so the w-ring was in the right place. it worked out fine and noone ever > noticed and she didn’t have to take the e-ring off.
Strange… why wouldn’t she take the e-ring off? If she wanted the symbolism of never taking the ring off… well, she did it anyway! Plus, it meant she had to take her wedding ring off so soon after she got it. I know people (well, 1, but I’m sure there are others!) who have *never* taken their wedding rings off. Pretty impressive! DH actually went several months with his. One day we set out to stain a piece of furniture, both taking our rings off so we wouldn’t get anything on them. When he was putting his back on he realized it was the first time it’d been off. — This email address is unread due to spam. Please post all replies.
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> We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! > Teegan
I’m keeping my engagement ring on, where it is as normal on my left hand, Brian will put my wedding ring on so its engagement ring then wedding ring and then I’ll switch positions so its wedding ring then engagement ring after the ceremony. My engagement ring doesn’t fit on my right hand as the finger is bigger and also, it simply feels weird, both to have a ring on another finger and to not have my engagement ring on that finger. And I think will everything else happening around us I don’t need a hand feeling weird..! — Sharon (and Brian – 27/08/99) —Share what you know. Learn what you don’t.—
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When I got married, I gave the Best man my engagment ring right before the wedding, then during the ceremony, my hubby put both rings back on my finger, vowing never to take them off. Well I forgot about that water retention thing. Nuff said Michelle – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – > Hi all! > We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! > Teegan
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My best friend just got married Saturday…she absolutly refused to take her e-ring off…so the groom put the band on on top of the e-ring…and me doing my moh duties made sure she switched them before the ring shot picture so the w-ring was in the right place. it worked out fine and noone ever noticed and she didn’t have to take the e-ring off. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Hi all! > We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! >(is this in the faq? It ought to be!) >She can either: >Switch her e-ring to another finger, and either put it back (or not) on >her left hand once the wedding ring is on. (this is what I did, keeping >the e-ring on my right hand.) >Have her MOH hold/wear her e-ring, and get it back after the ceremony. >Give you her e-ring, and you put them both on. >(I’m sure there are about a million more options too, these seem to be >the most common.) >– >This email address is unread due to spam. Please post all replies.
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> Hi all! > We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses!
(is this in the faq? It ought to be!) She can either: Switch her e-ring to another finger, and either put it back (or not) on her left hand once the wedding ring is on. (this is what I did, keeping the e-ring on my right hand.) Have her MOH hold/wear her e-ring, and get it back after the ceremony. Give you her e-ring, and you put them both on. (I’m sure there are about a million more options too, these seem to be the most common.) — This email address is unread due to spam. Please post all replies.
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Hi all! We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses! Teegan
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> We are wondering about something which many may find a silly question… We > don’t know whether she is to wear the engagement ring up the aisle and I am to > put the wedding band on once she meets me OR if I am to adorn her with both > rings once she makes it up the aisle? Thanks in advance for responses!
The usual practice in the U.S. is that the bride wears her engagement ring on a different finger (or takes it off entirely) for the ceremony. The groom puts the wedding ring on the fourth finger of her left hand during the ceremony. She then, after the ceremony, slips the engagement ring back on top of it — or not, if she didn’t bring the engagement ring or intends to wear it on her right hand instead. Wende
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> The impressions from watching marriages around me and hearing descriptions > about marriages, it seems to me that marriage customs in general are picked > up from American soaps. > That I believe, makes us continental, only we belong to whatever continent > the set of customs projected in the soap comes from. Or maybe we could call > it continentlessness, aka reverse emotional incontinens?
Agree, these mail order marriages are getting to be pretty hilarious, but most will have another shot at redoing it anyway. Gunnar
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> Whether Norway is continental or insular in this respect I don’t know.
I am hardly the right person to comment on this, since my knowledge about marriage customs is purely academic, but this is very, very hard to resist. The impressions from watching marriages around me and hearing descriptions about marriages, it seems to me that marriage customs in general are picked up from American soaps. That I believe, makes us continental, only we belong to whatever continent the set of customs projected in the soap comes from. Or maybe we could call it continentlessness, aka reverse emotional incontinens? Arne
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[crossposted to alt.wedding] +—–< David Steele > | Oh yes, and I believe the Norwegians (like the rest of Scandinvaia | (?)) wear their wedding rings on the right hand instead of the | left. +- In continental Europe, the wedding band is often worn on the right hand, while engagement bands are worn on the left. In Sweden and England, the wedding ring is worn on the left hand. In Sweden, the bride after the wedding wears both the engagement band and the wedding band on her left hand, while the groom only wears the engagement band (thus no wedding band for the groom!). The Swedish practice is sometimes misinterpreted in Spain, where only a widow wears two bands: hers and her late husband’s. Whether Norway is continental or insular in this respect I don’t know. — ______ _~ (_/_ _ _ _/) _ . /) / ) , _/) _ __/ _/(_(/_(/__/(_/_/Z_ (_/_/)_/__/))_(I_/)_
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